Where can I find new friends? I feel like my priorities are so different from them now. They are still in a hyper competitive rat race mindset. Every conversation is about finmemes or PE recruiting or how their date works at Wells instead of at Goldman. I’m the only one in a stable relationship and everyone I’ve set them up with they’ve turned down based up picture alone. They have been my friends all through college but I’m tired of how bitter and competitive they’ve become.

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I have met a lot of great friends through Bumble BFF

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Get new friends at MBB firms and make fun of everyone who slums it with GS and Wells.

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You need to come up with the rule that every time someone talks about work (or anything related) they have to take a shot. It worked with my friend group when they all worked together but I worked somewhere else

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I’m looking for new friends! Career driven but not competitive with my friends lol I work to live not the other way. DM me if you want, 25F :)

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Go find friends who do something with their lives?

Actually - volunteer, you can meet some great and highly motivated people in the city.

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I’m a woman and this is my girl group of friends.

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Let’s be friends! I feel this. Stable relationship changes things

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Do you guys sit around comparing your business cards?

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Let’s see Paul Allen’s card...

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Time to make new friends Op — it happens where we distant ourselves from old relationships

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Make some gay friends 💅🏻💅🏻

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We can be friends!

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Would love that!!

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I’d love to meet your old friends. I’m one of those overly competitive anxious people and my friends for the most part or not and they can’t relate to me. Let’s swap friends!

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Your friends sound like nerds

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They’re toxic Op

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We can be friends.

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M fish here but happy to be friends too, 34 M just FYI

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I’ll be your friend! 29 F and moved to NYC to be with my SO

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I’ll be your friend!!

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Start a group chat!

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OP we can be friends 🥺 23f moving in the fall

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I can be your friend! In a relationship and moving to the city soon

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