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Why do men have issues with commitment? Was dating someone for last 6 months. He says he can’t see the future with me but wants to continue datin🤬 he knows I want marriage eventually. (Contd.)

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Sounds like he wants easy access to affection and sex without any of the commitment or responsibility. Doesn’t sound like the actions of a real man. Time to show him that you respect yourself by cutting him off and finding someone better :)

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Tell him to lose your number

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You don't get what you deserve, You get what you put up with. -some famous person's quote.
This sentence really helped me find the right relationship.

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Drop him you deserve better

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Don’t waste your energy anymore. Move on

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Sorry you are going through this. I don’t know if this is commitment issues or him being disrespectful, immature, and selfish (he could be open about his commitment issues and end it cleanly without expecting you to still be there for him). Cut him off, ignore his texts and move on.

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Omg the same thing happened to me!! We instantly connected and everything went perfectly like a dream. Then all of a sudden he went back home one weekend and his gut feeling told him this was not right for the long term. I tried to save this for another two months but he can’t unplant the thought🙃 We ended on good terms and looking back, I’m sooo glad we broke up. There were many fundamental differences that I simply ignored when we dated.

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Boy bye. You deserve better

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When they don’t want you to meet their friends it’s usually because they’re hiding something. Like another person. I hope this isn’t the case but it sounds all too familiar.

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He does consulting like me. Everything seemed like a dream but suddenly he had issues me meeting his friends and he still doesn’t feel I may be the one for him.. we broke last weekend but he continues texting me as if nothing happened

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BLOCK HIS ASS

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DTMFA! Don’t let him string you along.

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Women have plenty issues with commitment too. I never wanted to get married and told everyone I dated that. It was probably a year and a half or so when I thought I could actually marry my husband some day. Idk, if 6 months is long enough to know if you want to marry them. All the “in love” feeling chemicals don’t even wear off until about 2 years, much harder to judge compatibility than

The OP said the guy wasn’t sure she’s the one. I don’t think you can decide someone is the one within 6 months. Sure, I’ve known some people who knew that from the moment they met their SO, but most of them were divorced within 5 years.

GET OUT. Happened to me recently and it was brutally painful. Finally feeling better 2 mos later and seeing it for what it was. He wanted companionship and all the bonuses of dating, but did not want to commit. Cannot have it both ways! I held on for dear life for 9 mos and then he just dropped me. Don’t be me.

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