Why do these guys ask me out, I reject and they immediately settle with another girl lol

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It's your fault for rejecting them

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Also guys don’t want to deal with a woman who will tell all her friends about the “creepy guy who keeps asking me out”. You said no, so bye Felicia.

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They’re probably just tryna get that trouser trout in some wetness.

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In the older days, our cupid used a bow and arrow. Shoot it against one target and if it hit, we are set. Else try again with another arrow.

But in these modern days, our cupid aren’t using bow and arrows anymore. We may be using machine guns or rocket launcher or something that can hit the maximum number of targets. That’s why we don’t need to worry about the one we miss (like you) and see where it lands đŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

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If you reject them then why do you care what they do next? Step 1 maybe to lower your standards a tad.

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No time to waste. So many fishes in the river 😂😂

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Sincerely curious as to what you’d expect them to do?

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They are just looking for someone to fill the role, could be anyone. So just move on until you find your special one

Because you turned them down and someone else was interested? I mean, not complicated.

As opposed to asking you out again?

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