Why do you date? And why do you choose to be in a relationship?

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I dated because I wanted someone to have sex with. I chose to be in a relationship because we ended up having a lot of fun outside of the bedroom too. Now I enjoy the company too much to want to go without it.

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because I am (I was) looking for someone to marry and reproduce with

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I want someone to go to stuff with me. And cuddling.

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