Why is it Indian men don't like strong Indian women? 😤 I'm so tired of going on dates and being told "you're too independent" and "you act like you don't need a man"

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Go gora. You'll remind you of their mothers and love you.

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Generalization is pretty bad... There are a lot of Indian men who do want independent partners.. But looks like you have on crappy dates which were you own choices.. So don't go ahead and generalize all of the Indian men out there...

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Fuck off SC1

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You just generalized all Indian men huh? If more than one man said this to you, it's pretty shitty of them, but there are a lot more of us who prefer strong women...

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As a non Indian male I can attest that OPs generalization applies to many men of all ethnicities, not just Indians.

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Are we seriously still insulting people on the basis of their firm? Are we third graders?

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FTFY: I am a Caucasian dickhead*

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I've dated non-Indian guys, but ultimately, Indian guys understand the culture more

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OP and Ey4 keep us updated. I smell an FB wedding

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@K3, read the whole thread before commenting.

@EY5 are you an actual consultant? use fewer words.

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It's self-selection. Those men who say that were never right for you. Don't let them turn you into something you're not.

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Maybe date non-Indian guys? I'm sure there are Indian guys out there who would work, but increasing your sample selection can't hurt

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After dating for 11 years and hearing the same "complaints" idk what to think 😞

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I'm brown and I find powerful and successful women hella attractive

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Chi Indian male here. Let's all go on one big independent group date to show OP she's just been dating the wrong men.

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I'm an Indian man. I prefer to date independent and strong women. You should stop dating weak men, Indian or not.

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SC1 you misread what OP said. She has been in the dating scene for 11 years, not dating one guy all that time..

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Personal experience - broke up with 3 Indian women because of their lack of independence. Went non-Indian, and happily married for 10 years. Keep an open mind and don't restrict yourself to any cultures or backgrounds. In the end, it's who makes you comfortable being yourself, and not what color they are.

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oooh OP, I think calls for a burner. What say you?

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