Why is it so hard to join a group ? My boyfriend has his group of friends (both males and females) but every time we hang out with them, I feel left out because I don’t have history with them and they all have their inside jokes and stories. He said I need to try more to interact with them but honestly I feel like certain friends mostly his female bestie is trying to not include me. I’ve tried to become friends with her but she’s not putting in effort to get to know me … I need advice.

My fiancé brought up threesomes twice within a couple days. We have also watched porn together and she always picks threesome videos. How do I tell if she actually wants to do it or if it’s some kind of test or if she just brought it up because she thought I would be into it?

My husband told me today that he cant handle another busy season - i.e me working all the time and he taking care of our two year old girl after his work. Cant say I blame him - but I feel drained

I'm with a 26 yr old woman who decides what she does (where she travels) based on how her dad feels about it. He's an anxious person who worries about her safety. We live in different states. I'm ready to settle down and make a future. Shes worried about her dad's feelings (for the record, I value family, too). Thoughts?

How to overcome a breakup. I'm heartbroken 😭

Going through a tough time mentally. Any good therapists? Need for myself as well S for my wife (I’m struggling personally for which I’ll need individual sessions and then need marriage counseling with my wife)

My roommate just found out that her mom back home (India) got tested positive for covid, and has been feeling very low. For folks who went through something similar, what was something that helped you feel better. Trying me be a helpful roommate

Working remotely for a tech co and still can't get over how much more time I get to spend with my kids. To be honest, this alone is worth so much more than money can buy. For those who plan well, I really think exiting can be worth it if family is a priority. It's really helped my marriage also, I'm a lot kinder to my wife with way less stress.

what are the biggest red flags in a distance relationship? I would say being spotty on communication is the biggest one for me.

I’m shooting 3 talks tomorrow, none of the talks have been written. I can’t stop thinking about him.

My husband seems to hate everything about me. He finds everything I talk about boring, and if I don’t talk, he calls me boring. I looked at my phone for 2 mins at a dinner and he started to scream at me for being phone obsessed. If I talk about work, he tells me I am pathetic. I am struggling to conceive and he keeps telling me I don’t care about having a family. I am so sad and exhausted all the time. What can I do?

I have a student who is a strong writer and wants to be a blogger. How can I support her in this?

8 years together, one married. In our 30’s.

I find my husband physically attractive but am not passionate about him or do not feel “pulled” towards him. Is this normal?

How do you guys handle finances or hope to handle finances especially after marriage?

TL:DR; How does my friend get sober from alcohol and drugs, without upending their life/career/family?

My best friend who I have worked with professionally, and been good friends with for 7 years, has picked up a steadily increasing addiction to a certain drug over the last 3 months.

He has been expressing concerns to me more frequently about his use and how it is effecting his work/relationships.

Is there a “best route” to get him back on track? Any advice appreciated.

Need advice pls . Been working in call center customer service for the past 15 years , since 2007. I work remotely .I really do love it . It’s convenient when you have young children. I just feel stuck , don’t have much education besides my high school diploma. How can I further my career and make more money in this field but not be stuck answering phone calls . All suggestions are very much appreciated

It’s Father’s Day, but my dad won’t speak to me.

How do people connect?! To clients, friend's parents, other girls, etc. To me, it looks daunting! I TRY but can never do it, especially not if I don't live with them

Anybody else struggling with the fact that nearly all their friends are coupled up?
Not in an envious way. Just... Damn, this sh*t can leave you very alone.

Anyone finding it increasingly difficult to participate in huge family zoom calls? I feel bad for “missing” calls but I can’t handle talking w/ extended fam that sans covid I wouldn’t talk to but 1/yr

Hello Folks , Recently got laid off. Any leads for Project Manager roles or any project management roles will be appreciated. I have overall 7 years experience in IT project management. Thank you 🙏🏼

How’s your work-life balance at the moment? Do you think research positions allow enough time for us to spend with friends and family?

Hey guys I recently got hire from Bronxcare Facility as a CNA, does anyone in here has work in there to know references that I should know about them?

Wtf happened to the market today?

Hello,

Can someone please tell how much % hike is given in s&p yearly for avera performance

How have you found mentors outside of your firm?

When’s a good time to buy a house?

I’m having trouble transitioning from work to home. What do you guys do to get yourself in the “home” mind so you can be fully present for your kids? What are your transition routines?

Anyone have any recruiters they recommend?

Looking to move from London after spending a year here (brexit sucks so leaving). Spent five years with EY down under in IT advisory. 7.5 YOE overall.

What should be the expected CTC for 4 years of experience in full stack development..?

What is the difference between an illegal Hiring Hall Agreement & Software Certification?
For example, a software company issues its own certification that its partners enforce as a requirement to work in the industry by searching that software's website for ensure applicants have certification. To legally recommend who can work, a Hiring Hall is required to be certified by the majority of workers in construction or garment industries. How is software certs able to avoid this law?

Hi Team,

I am a Informatica Developer looking for a job change.
YOE-4.5 years
Skills- Informatica, SQL,AWS,Unix
Could someone please refer me if you have any openings for informatica power center developer roles.
Thanks in Advance 🙏🏻

Is there a market for lawyers to add expertise In crisis management or reputation management? My goal is to counsel clients (businesses or public figures) on how to respond to media inquiries without saying or posting something detrimental to a potential lawsuit while still maintaining communication with their client base. If so, how to break into that industry? Courses? Books? Certifications?

Is it a good idea to resign for pay raises in the next 2 years to get a higher payment at the begining of the contract?

What is the Assistant Manager salary range in Deloitte? Any insights welcome please

Anyone come across someone so happy and your first emotion is jealousy? Blows my mind that some people are just happy and satisfied in life.

Is anyone willing to provide insight into their PE benefits package? Vacation days, 401K match, personal/sick days, other random perks (meals/cell phone/gym)? Trying to evaluate a recent offer!

Which monitor option is better and why?
QHD with VA panel or FHD with IPS panel & split screen ? Rest everything is same

Technical program managers at FAANG, would anyone mind describing the level of technical aptitude you had to show in the interviews? I have an interview with Google but do not have a technical background at all. Have heard program manager doesn’t require the aptitude that product would. How true is this?

So what do men really look for looks wise? Is it really all about the face?

Do people tend to remain close to their siblings after marriage/ getting into a serious relationship? Or does life tend to take over and losing touch is somewhat normal?

When did you move in with your partner? Is it a good idea to suggest this if they haven’t even told their family about me? I feel like the answer is no but we basically spend every night with each other anyways. Been officially dating for 5 months, less serious for just over a year now

We're about to start planning our wedding. I have a huge family and friend group (100+) that I want to invite and she has a very small family and group of friends (>50). We haven't talked about this yet, but I wanted to get some opinions on this before hand. Should I reduce the be l number of people I want to invite to match hers? Is it unfair to her that I'll have a significant majority at the wedding?

12 years and my partner won't do chores. Vent vent vent. I make 80% of our income and pay 80% of expenses. I'm also tidy but hate cleaning. Partner works 20-30 hours/ week no kids and is a slob. 3 months ago made chore list, got them to sign on the list the 50/50 split that it was fair. 3 months later I've been doing my chores they haven't done any. Brought it up today and was accused that the list was unfair they refuse and they dont have time because they must "work to subsidize your expenses"

My gf mentioned that I am too mechanical during the act. Tips to better things?

Ive been in a relationship for 7 months. We met 4+ years ago but it didn't go anywhere at that time. We kept running into each other throughout the years and stayed cordial. When we started talking again this time around, I had flat out asked him about many things including education. Contd.

If a person were worried that their fiancee could potentially be with them purely for monetary gain, would it be wrong to test them before the marriage? By test I mean have a third party offer a decent amount of money to break off the wedding?

*I would like to be clear that this is purely a hypothetical question. I'm not in a position where I need, want, or could do this, but I have an unfortunate experience in the past, where an ex significant other was not the person I thought they were*

I have a crush on my counsellor at work. She's much older but still really gracious and beautiful. Should I go for it or is this a bad idea?

Has this ever happened to you that each time you meet your bf/gf , there is extreme nervousness from both sides ? It’s a good kind of nervousness (shyness , awkwardness) and almost feels like meeting someone you have known forever for the first time?

** Really need your advise**
So my gf 26 and I 27 (m) broke up a month back. We booked a concert long time ago and that’s up next week. Our breakup was mutual but this girl is special. I have tried over and over again to rekindle but she said it’s done. The concert is next week and I really want her there. Should I ask her one last time or should I let her go?

Magic Johnson is an amazing pornstar name

Anyone else having relationship issues since conora? Anyone know if divorce rate has increased?

Thanksgiving is upon us. Send help.

My step in laws are TERRIBLE. Not directly to me but family dynamic is stressful. They parent their youngest kid with pills and ignoring him, so that he does inappropriate things around me with zero correction (walking in on me, insulting me). They are all half siblings (4 boys 30-11) so they all don’t care including my partner. FIL also verbally abuses MIL in front of us. Yet they all want to please him constantly. It’s just bad.

Food was good though.

A question for the guys: was this a date?! Ran into a guy I knew in college at a bar, he technically asked me out (“we should get drinks sometime” etc), then paid for my drink. But as we were saying bye, it felt kinda platonic? Like just a hug and “good seeing you.” Or is he not interested? How often do you kiss on a first date?

I (33M) got booted from Bumble for "promoting social media". I do not even have social media and I can't stand seeing Instagram or TikTok in a girl's bio - it's an instant turn off - so why would I do it?

Anyone have experience fighting a ban? Bumble was really the only app I liked.

Has anyone tried couples therapy? Or know anyone that has? Was it successful or is it not worth the time and money?