Why the dating pool sucks: 50% of people have a secure attachment style (most are in relationships). The others have dysfunctional attachment styles.

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Do you think that women who are still single in there mid to late twenties all have dysfunctional attachment styles? Cuz I might just agree

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Might’ve a dysfunctional attachment style but I’m single coz I don’t feel the need to settle for anything less than what I want and deserve

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Hit my line Gina

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Why can’t it be both?

What do you define as dysfunctional attachment

D1 only Deloitte will read these books during down time 🙃

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you really think 50% of people have a secure attachment style?

That's what many studies show

This post is oversimplifying something much more nuanced and honestly super fascinating! If you have more questions probably don’t ask OP and listen to the audio book/read “Attached.” by Levine & Heller ! (Sorry OP)

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