Will my manager get into trouble if other team members find out he wrote my letter of recommendation?

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Would it be seen by other members as a 'betrayal'? Also would he need to inform the higher ups in the team before writing a recommendation?

No one will find out if they don't want them to. Also, no, unless you have a truly dysfunctional workplace.

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