With certain males, I feel like I avoid conflict and allow them to talk to me in ways that I later think are disrespectful. Then I second guess myself and think maybe they are being direct and Cont

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No. I am pretty direct myself and love a good debate

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I can’t tell if they are being disrespectful or direct, but I suspect disrespectful. One level down telling me what I should be doing. Peers asking me why I’m not doing something (but not in a curious way, in a why aren’t you doing what I think you should be doing critical kind of way)

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I’m being too sensitive. I feel like maybe I’m avoiding conflict or being a push over. Anyone else been in this situation? How did you handle?

Are you me?

Does directness usually make you feel disrespected in other circumstances?

So what about it being men do you think makes you feel this way? What’s different? Is it the work angle or something else? Maybe they are being rude?

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