Wondering if anyone has any advice on trying to overcome trust issues? I’ve been dating someone for 2 months and he’s been cheated on in the past. I think he’s projecting those insecurities onto this relationship and I think he fundamentally doesn’t trust me, even though I’ve never cheated on anyone in my past and I’ve never given him any reason to not trust me. Is this something that we can work through or is this something that he needs to figure out on his own? I’ve tried to reassure him [con

The way we get comforted after being sad matures with age, How do you like to be comforted when you’re sad or upset after 30s & 40s? Talk to the person you love? Alcohol? Alone time? Podcast? Yoga?

Moving to Philly Nov 1, just signed a lease in Queen Village. Coming from LA where I was part of a volleyball group and had a lot of options at the beach. Suggestions on making friends and being active (while still being respectful of covid rules & health of all)? 36 F

8 years together, one married. In our 30’s.

I find my husband physically attractive but am not passionate about him or do not feel “pulled” towards him. Is this normal?

How do you deal with someone who you just don't work well with? This Sr in my office stresses me out and every project that I have worked on with him has unnecessarily sucked.

I just don’t want to go anymore. I’ve been awake almost 24hrs but I know if I don’t someone will call, someone will forget administrator don’t go home, they don’t rest they worry ALL the time. 2.5h commute, a small child, and sick dog, and a full time student. I need more money. Daycare is sooo expensive that’s why I can’t quit the waiting list is 2yrs he will be headed to middle school lol. Okay rant over time to make the doughnuts

I loved this woman. We kinda ended up falling apart, i really miss her. Making some effort and talking might resolve and we could get back together. She said we can give another shot. Pros: she is a good person, cute, smart. Cons: temper issues, big spender and money management issues. I couldn’t move on but couldn’t make a decision. Any advise is appreciated.

My childhood best friend is getting married in June. Haven’t been to my hometown since 2016. Hope to look huge and surprise them after so long. What’s your motivation?

Is there anyone else who doesn’t fast during Ramadan? I haven’t come across any other friend of mine. Told this to one of the friends and got quite a nasty reaction.

All my closefriends are straight and from my college days. All of them are now married and/or have kids. I really don’t know where I fit in anymore as a single gay man.

My husband never reads and wants to start reading as a new hobby. What is a good book that you would recommend for a 40 year old man? Not self help books, but maybe something with action. I think he would like the Bourne series, but he saw all the movies so he's not interested, but something similar.

Is the saying "a happy wife is a happy life" really true? Or should there be compromise and balance for both sides. Discuss.

Anybody struggling with fellow associates in big law? Currently working with associates that will stab you in the back at all costs and don’t care about building friendships, etc. This environment is mentally draining and I feel like I am an outlier for being kind. Truly shows that nice people finish last.

Hi Chicago - just moved here from the UK (via 7 years in Germany) and looking to make some great new friends.

Moved to River North and into trivia nights, most sports, movies etc and would love to find some people open to adding a city newbie to the group!

42m if that matters 🤷🏻‍♂️😁

My husband and I are both very ready to start a family. For those who have finished their PhD while pregnant or with a young child, do you have any regrets?

Home for Christmas. My mom just told me my dad was diagnosed with some rare blood condition last week where your bone marrow stops producing enough new blood cells. More tests later this week, but until then no one else knows and we aren’t talking about it because dad doesn’t want to and they don’t want my grandma to know. Getting stoned in my old room because I don’t know what the fuck else I’m supposed to do right now. Yay!

How do you find a healthy balance between your job and your personal life?

I've an interview with a big law firm quite well known in the immigration realm. What should be the expectation in terms of salary for a client engagement manager?

About to join BNY Mellon this month pune location as a Technical Lead. I am eligible for bonus in Jan 2023 or not ?

Looking to get into a new area of work in Dubai. Currently working in Ireland in a public facing role as a pharmacist. Salary is good, earning about €80K. Anyone know any companies hiring in Dubai? I have interest in working as an analyst in financial sector as it has always interested me or in an industry role. I dont want to take much of a dip in salary (if this is possible), anyone with any information or referrals I would be greatful 😎🙌🏻

Looking for a consulting role into blockchain and metaverse. Yoe- 1.5 yrs, MBA graduate. Please let me know if you can refer me to any job possibilities

Anyone working in Capgemini Engineering Noida ?

When taking over managing a project that’s already in progress, what’s your go-to method or process to figure out what the hell is going on holistically?

So what's your plan if the candidate you're voting for doesn't win?

Thoughts on DWT Surge in Seattle? What was the whole structure and experience like for you? How long did you do it? Do you recommend it?

My doc sent me the wrong prescription this month (20 mg IR, which was my old prescription, instead of 30 mg XR). I forgot how bad the IR headaches and crash were…

Does anyone in here work exclusively with B2B enterprise marketing using paid ads on Google and Facebook?

Early childhood development day care recommendations in south Austin within 5-10 miles of NXP. Please provide name of the center and quality rating based on your experience for ex. Best, good, ok

For my chubby kings out there: any thoughts on high rise pants?

Does anyone know of any remote contract jobs in auditing? Specifically, risk management, compliance or internal auditing? I’m able to work 20+ hours a week. I’m a detailed-oriented person and and a great communicator. I also have a lot of experience in presentation design and enjoy doing those a lot. I would prefer a contract job receiving a 1099 and am not interested in being a w-2 employee. Please let me know if any of you have any referrals. Thank you and I appreciate any tips you can give.

Anyone have insight into litigation at Shook Hardy? Preferably Boston. Hours, comp, culture, reputation?

All, I’m happy to help with referrals to Accenture! I love it here!!

Lateraling and the new firm wants two references from my current firm to reach out to closer to my start date. Should I inform my references beforehand or should I just provide an email to the new firm and let it be?

Any designers wanna help me out with my portfolio? Everything is done, I just need some feedback to know how to improve it. I'd be very happy if you could help out!

Can somebody give me a review on TE-ES-Oracle Financials team in @KGS @KPMG global services

Hi Everyone,

I have my office in Whitefield(SJR Ipark). Please suggest me some good societies /areas to get a flat or if anyone wants a flatmate I will be happy to join in.
I have a bike as well so even if it's a bit far I don't mind as my main priority is a good place and flatmates.

TIA

What do you guys think makes a great creative campaign in pharma?

Entering 2-4 years of long distance. Been together for a year. I know she is the one for me, any tips on making it as painless as possible?

What do men in early 40’s look for in dating/relationship?

Anyone else having relationship issues since conora? Anyone know if divorce rate has increased?

Is this normal? I need to adjust the way I see life.

I met this guy online and we clicked right away, started talking everyday and seeing each other. We talked about future plans but he told me from the start how he struggles talking about serious topics and I need to give a push.

I realized he never talks about the past. So I decided to know about his past, has he been into hook-up culture (which if you're for, u do u but I dont appreciate it especially at my age)

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I need serious advice, please! Am I wasting my time messaging a guy I matched with online that lives on the opposite coast? Background: we message each other at least 1-2 times everyday for the last FIVE months but never over a phone call. He actually doesn't even have my number. We message on IG. He's a full-time student and full time employee so busy guy. But am I wasting my time and emotions with this guy??

Recently met someone and we have been out a few times. Afterwards we will talk about stuff and he has almost an exact memory of everything I have said (even when he was clearly drunk too). Is it unsettling or endearing for a guy to be like this?

Anybody here that few up in household where mom or dad had an affair? How did it affect your romantic relationships/beliefs/outcomes in adulthood?

why do i struggle when my s/o isn’t texting me? ik they’re not cheating on me, ik they still love me, all that jazz.

but for some reason i’m not at peace when they take some time to themselves.

any tips or advice?

If a person were worried that their fiancee could potentially be with them purely for monetary gain, would it be wrong to test them before the marriage? By test I mean have a third party offer a decent amount of money to break off the wedding?

*I would like to be clear that this is purely a hypothetical question. I'm not in a position where I need, want, or could do this, but I have an unfortunate experience in the past, where an ex significant other was not the person I thought they were*

Doing a little reflecting and I realized I've always fumbled opportunities with potential dates. Either I didn't make a move when I should have, or I waited too long and the moment passed. Any advice to prevent this?

Need gift ideas that one can only buy in California. I am making a trip to CA first time after I got into a serious relationship, Bf won’t be able to come along for a reason. I want to get him something memorable. He is into fitness and health. All ideas welcome , no $ limit

My gf mentioned that I am too mechanical during the act. Tips to better things?

The person I’m seeing has been responding to my texts days later (only a recent development) and it’s making me anxious. They have been busy the past two weeks with PhD exams and their last message was them planning when they could see me again (in a really flirty way too), so logically I know the delay is not a sign of disinterest. But I have an anxious attachment style (if that’s not obvious) and my therapist is on leave right now, so I’m struggling. Do any of you have any advice?

My fiancé brought up threesomes twice within a couple days. We have also watched porn together and she always picks threesome videos. How do I tell if she actually wants to do it or if it’s some kind of test or if she just brought it up because she thought I would be into it?

Ive been in a relationship for 7 months. We met 4+ years ago but it didn't go anywhere at that time. We kept running into each other throughout the years and stayed cordial. When we started talking again this time around, I had flat out asked him about many things including education. Contd.

I split with my BF a year ago (his decision) after four years together (off and on). In your opinion, should all ties be cut? I’m struggling to tell him to stop contacting me.

What made you realize that your SO was someone you saw forever with?

A friend of mine told me I should have Narcan on hand for my boyfriend who does coke sometimes. I'm firmly against it. He knows I hate when he does it and I don't want the emotional weight of carrying it around in my purse. Like, if he's going to do that, he should carry his own damn Narcan. Am the asshole? She thinks I'm being cruel since it can be lifesaving and you can get it for free.