Work BURNOUT… LET’S TALK ABOUT IT. So a little back story. I am 38 a full full time single mom. I work about 60 hours per week. I do not get child support. My employer currently expects me to bring in 15 new customers & 100 existing every month… minimum. I have realized with my upcoming paid time off that I am burnt out. I recently have had no motivation to produce because I so desperately need a break. I sell internet and am the 2nd top producing rep in the region. Opinions to get my mojo back.

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If you can, I'd say take a break or try and find a way to ease your workload. Obviously easier said than done but in my opinion no job is worth compromising your mental and physical health for

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im currently on mental health leave for burnout and it is saving my life. get a therapist, have them submit for short term disability. rest.

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I suggest you to try to negotiate some additional time off. Since you are doing good in performance hopefully that will help to back it off. That or try to make them bring someone else to your team to support the goals you need to achieve.

Start looking for another position and do the minimum not to get fired until you find something new and better

Haha I like the first part of this

Try changing your routine. Small changes that won't affect your schedule will help your productivity. You can also talk to your employer about your current situation to see if there is a win-win situation. They assume you are doing well outside of work if you don't speak out.

Oh no. You have a lot on your plate and it's reasonable for you to feel this way. Is there any way for you to take a step back from work? I just want you to know that it's okay to take a break. It's just as important as any other responsibility. You can't keep pouring from an empty cup.

I wanted to say I resepct your hustle. I was raised by a single mom and i know that it is no easy task. A break may give you what you need to feel refreshed but only if it is a long break. A couple days just won't do it in my opinion.

15 new customers every month? That's absurd. It's totally normal to feel that way. But don't push yourself too far. You deserve some break

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