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I drank a lot at one point but it's motion that helps me. Walking, running, mobility work, indoor climbing, chores, shit I've been putting off.

I have to consume my other time (not work) with things that keep my mind from rotting.

With work, I've honestly gone on DND to buy myself 15 minutes here and there throughout my day. This wk, I started doing some review work on balcony.

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I do the exact same things! I should probably cut back on the beer though.

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