Working as a hotel maid isn't bad but my husband wanted to surprise me with a romantic getaway and I just feel like I'm at work, he told me I don't need to make the bed but it's so hard to relax with it like this! hahah

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It's hard to relax when you're constantly reminded of work, even if it's a relaxing environment. It happens to me when I go out to eat with my family! I feel weird sitting at the table and not standing, carrying plates and asking for orders.

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lol I feel you but this is totally preventable! if a traditional getaway doesn't do it for you, you just gotta figure out what a good vacation would look like and communicate that to your husband, hope that helps :)

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