Would you ever date your bestfriend’s first love if that friend is married but has fond memories of him?

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No because I don’t have any friends.

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She shouldn’t really care as she’s married but out of respect you should discuss it with her first

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It’s a no for me

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Yes

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Yup

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There's a reason she has fond memories of him- he sounds like a nice guy. Go for it!

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It’s icky situation but depends how much of a connection I have. I would give my best friend a heads up.

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No because there are plenty of attractive ladies out there with no relation to you or your friend

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Its the first thing

Depends on how close the friend is.

With a couple of my close friends, I know there are certain women that they would be upset if I dated, despite being engaged.

I’d probably discuss it with her first.

I mean how long ago was the first love like 10 years or husband was the next person?

Why even get into that headache when there are so many people out there lookin' for love?

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