Would you move in with your husband and his family…I frankly don’t know if I could even date someone who still lives with their parents

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It really depends on the situation. Generally speaking it would be a no for me to move into their house, but I would be open to the idea of them moving into my house sometime in the future (assuming we get along, and we are all respectful of each other’s space)
Someone who has never lived away from home (living away just for school doesn’t count) would be a big topic of concern for me.

No. As you said, I wouldn’t even date someone who lives with their parents or plans on never moving out.

No way José

Hard pass!

What if you grew up in India and have only lived away from home for a few years? Just trying to work this out in my head.

No. There can only be so many adults in one home, living together and making decisions. I grew up in Pakistan and the first thing I told my now husband when we got serious was that I am not going to live in a joint family.

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Definitely look for a partner who has stayed away from home for reasonable time, doesn’t matter if they are staying with parents now due to work location. First few years of marriage are rough, it goes through amazing highs and some lows as you share everything with a stranger for the first time. You do not want too many variables at that time. They can come visit for a few months in the longer run.

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