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Y'all ever been in love just for the sake of it? And like you're both in it for the same reason? Does it work out?

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I fall in love 😍 very often 🤗😋 with more than one person at a time 😞. I know I didn’t answer your question.

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No. I can’t wait

Isn’t this just regular casual dating? You hang out with each other until you get bored/you both decide to get serious/one of you ends up getting hurt? How is this “being in love”?

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Dont think those work out. You fall for what you’re doing, not who you’re doing it with, and then eventually, one of you will wonder why you’re stuck doing it with that person, or that was my experience.

Basically, which is dangerous cause one of you could fall for the other, while the other is just enjoying the activities. Once the show stops, the curtains close.

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I'm going through this right now. We're both lonely and could use the company during these times. We have a good time together but I don't see myself marrying him. Haven't explicitly discussed it but things will most likely end when summer rolls around.

The key is to not catch feelings, be honest, and don't lead the other person on.

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