You started at a new role/company 2 months ago that is +50% your previous TC, a level promotion, and you’re happy with the team and scope.
However you’re also currently in a long distance relationship with a SO you love and have been with for 4 years. The relationship is starting to crack and moving abroad to be with her seems like the best decision to kee the relationship. How would you play this out sirs/maams?

Ask manager to work abroad and quit if they reject it? Thx for the feedback 😔

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