Recruiters get a bad stigma. Are they really that bad? If so, why? I know they're commission, but seem to be the easiest way into a new company.

2.2 YOE

Have 2 offers in hand, extremely confused right now
Deloitte India 10.5 lpa fix 1-1.5 variable

UBS 12 lpa fix ( variable over and above) not disclosed as part of ctc.

Please advise which one to choose considering growth and learning.

My three month old baby’s tummy really rumbles and bubbles when she starts taking her bottle. And sometimes she cries and whines like the formula hurts her. It’s been like this since maybe she was a couple weeks old, and she was initially on breast milk and it did the same thing to her. I don’t think it’s food allergies as she has no other symptoms (no weird poop, no excessive spit up, etc.), but it’s still worrying as she seems so uncomfortable sometimes. (Cont)

I know it has nothing to do with banking, but watching England lose to Iceland was very satisfying. 4Days 2 Brexits.

Why did deloitte fire servicenow consultants during last lockdown? And why are they mass hiring servicenow resources now?

This is completely in contrast to the brand name

Help me unlocking Chats. Need 11 likes

Elvie or Willow?

Can't decide because I want the ability to pump while bending (Willow) but I want the silence and light weight (Elvie).

I'm currently a 42:3-42:7 on the Spectra settings for pumping, let down is 70:3. Is that more similar to the Willow or the Elvie's suction?

Not an overproducer, generally an ounce per hour with a 4-5 hour leak limit. Save in bottles for next day and occasionally store a few ounces in freezer. Already have rectangular freezer bags I prefer.

Bonvoy? Imagine how many people had to agree to this before it was implemented...

I am an associate in Tax. Wondering what are my exit opportunities and where I can go next besides public. I understand not all companies have internal tax teams.

Has anybody transferred 401k to RRSP?

Are there any ECM teams on the street that you know of that are hiring?

Are there any other audit to advisory transfer destinations besides FDD and CMAAS that are common moves?

28 M here...Looking for a female emotional support online with mutual respect ...Feeling lonely as my frnds r getting married and I'm yet to find any alliance ... If both r compatible enough then we can consider long-term relationship or marriage. DM me girls if interested...

I recently passed the CFE and was looking into the CAMS next. Any suggestions on how to best prepare for the CAMS? I’ve been mostly reviewing the index cards that come with the prep material.

HMU if you want to spend the Memorial Day weekend doing something/nothing. And no, you don’t need to be a SD.

Deloitte Leadership, 11 months ago, when asked what talent retention plans they had in light of the 20% pay cut they'd forced upon everyone - if people want to leave they're welcome to leave.

Deloitte Leadership now - "why are we losing so much talent"

Hi fishes!

I have 3+ YOE in consulting and looking to transition to PM in the next 6 months. Guess it's enough time to wait out the economic situation and also prepare myself in terms of the knowledge/skills required. Does it make sense to join a startup to make the jump?

Apart from the attributes and skills required, what are the absolute basics I should add to my stack? So far I've identified Google Analytics, JIRA, wireframing tools like Balsamiq, agile. Please add on to these if you know.

Ideas for scaling up? I work as a consulting accountant with a full book of business. I can’t work any more hours than I do and my rate is competitive. My clients are whales so I don’t want to price them out, and they don’t like me staffing up. But I’m not satisfied with what I’m earning. Ideas? Thoughts? Note* I’m in my 50’s so a new career is off the table. Feeling like Bob Cratchit over here.

Has anyone had gastric bypass surgery?

The guy I’m seeing moved into a new place recently and all he talks about is the furniture and stuff he’s ordering. It’s getting annoying. Once he even told me he was sleepy and had to go, and then the next day I saw he texted to tell me he ordered more furniture at midnight. I get that he’s excited but he will just call to tell me things and not even ask how I am. I had the most stressful week at work! I’m listening, but I’m internally getting kinda irritated. Am I an asshole?

My husband has a good female friend who he has known since grad school (well before we met). They have been platonic for as long as they’ve known each other. I met her shortly after my husband and I started dating and she has also become a friend of mine, though closer to my husband. We hang out with her a lot, though admittedly less over past few years since we had kids (and Covid!). Tonight we were supposed to meet up with her for drinks and dinner but our babysitter cancelled last minute.

Any vegan Keto diet followers here? How do u manage work stress and food?

Has anyone used temp based birth control? Looking at natural cycles and would love to see if anyone has used them or something else successfully?

Has anybody in this group frozen their eggs? I know I don’t want kids for at least another decade, but I still want healthy babies 🙄

Looking to switch companies as I don’t see much growth in where I am at. What are the best consulting firms in your opinion and why?

I got pressured in to getting 2 syringes of cheek filler by a plastic surgeon and kept on noting how sagged my face looked. I’ve gained some weight (6lbs) so I feel that my face was already full. they gave me a significant discount on the second syringe since they messed up my booking so I don’t think it was to make more $$$. it’s been about two weeks and my face looks fat. I hope this settles down. has anyone experienced chipmunk cheeks but later happy with the results?

Company just voluntold me to go to a conference when honestly I'd much rather just stick with my daily work. Too bad they're making it seem like such a gift/award that I can't say no to it 😑

Not only did my boyfriend break up with me this morning but I got to the office and found out even though I was extended on a project yesterday, I am being rolled off today. Just double blindsided

I dated an orthopedic surgeon who makes over $500k a year. When he was a fellow, he borrowed a large sum of money from me. Although I was not comfortable lending that much, I felt bad for his situation and helped him. Two years have passed and he refused to pay me back the full amount. I showed him the evidence of the check I wrote him, and the Venmo records of our transactions. His response? “I don’t remember. Your memory is wrong so I’m not paying you more!” Wow just wow! I cannot believe

I don’t drink and am against it (won’t pay for it or supply it). BF loves it. We respect this boundary. Took the first trip together and he loved the beer there. Bought a bunch to bring it back home with him. Realized later he stuffed one in my bag without my knowing because he didn’t have space. When I asked him he said it’s because he really wanted it. Conflicted- is this selfish? It’s throwing me off. Especially as I make it a point when we pay for dinner I don’t split/pay for his drinks.

How do you politely decline someone trying to set you up with a person you’re not physically attracted to AT ALL?

I think of myself as mostly attractive. But I feel like I get automatically eliminated by a lot of guys because I’m curvier. (Size 12ish). I usually do dating apps, but once I messaged a guy on here and once I sent a body pic he stopped responding. It’s hard not to take it to heart. :(

Has anyone noticed changes with their period after getting the vaccine?

Best hiking boots? Timberland Originals as a benchmark for durability, cost, waterproof

I am currently taking PTO for the week (first vacation in over a year) and I cannot relax… I’m even stressed about not being relaxed enough lol. Can’t stop thinking about going back to work and dealing w personal matters when I’m home. Any words or advice? (Yes I know this sounds dumb, I feel dumb for it)

Might be a dumb question... but when to have the exclusivity conversation with a guy you are dating?

how do you work when you’re emotional about family drama, have severe period cramps, back pain from the weight of carrying your eldest daughter issues, and every client complaint sends you off the edge? like fuck this. i cant handle any of this bs this week