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Don’t care what they think. I am in similar situation where my boss feels threatened by my drive and finds every chance he can to put me down in front of the group but you know what other people rely on you and your knowledge and you thoughts so for people who doesn’t like it are more just jealous that they cannot shine as you do!
One thing I've learned is that your choice of words are super important regardless of who's at fault whether it be verbal or written communication. This may suck but how you say things can be used against you even when you are well intended.
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You need a team-a few folks who back you up. And so think about your tone and word choices. Women get judged more harshly. Humor can help.
Don’t beta for toxic peers.
An “aw babe you’re so cute” goes a long way.
“Lol you’re funny.”
“Are you okay? How are you feeling? Here for you friend.”
“Hate to see you sulk like this. Do you want to talk about your feelings?”
Then check your watch and check out.
Hanlon’s Razor - shut down swiftly and let it roll off you.