Relationships

It’s been 7 years but still in love with my ex. How do I get over this? I’ve seen a shrink, deleted social, etc but he’s always on my mind. Help!!

How does a marriage survive when one partner hates the parents of the other partner to the point they wished the parents dead?  Is it even possible for the marriage to survive such one sided hate?

Female 🐠, I’m sure this has been asked 1000 times, but why are ladies so reluctant to start conversations on Bumble? I’m very very new to online dating, and haven’t had trouble getting matches, but … more

My boyfriend has always been clear about not wanting to get married. I’m divorced so have been ok with not getting remarried. Very recently he has started to bring up marriage constantly via jokes. If… more

Any advice on how to do an organized shared family calendar? My wife and I want to get more sophisticated than a calendar on the fridge. Would love to link to Outlook w/out sharing each other’s work m… more

I have a general question regarding finances in respect to marriage. Im engaged to be married in 2 months. My soon to be husband makes less than me, is working on fixing his credit, and is not the be… more

Married folks what learnings and tips would you share with a recent married 30yo woman. I feel i do a lot of heavy lifting, have to tell my husband every time things that needs to be done. He puts in … more

Is 5k “too much” to spend for an engagement ring that my SO really loves? 150k TC

I have realized I don't like most of the people. Initially I may but with time I start to judge, get envy for pity things and followed by dsliking them. I guess I like to be alone?🤔 How pitiful m… more

Houston 🐠: I’m looking to propose my girlfriend in the next month or so, does anyone have any less mainstream and intimate ideas/places in the Houston area to plans this? I’d like it to be small and … more

Phone calls before a date ? Is this normal ? I feel like it’s a screening process. I’d rather meet and see if we hit it off or not. It just seems odd.

What should a couple talk about / what do you wish you and your s/o talked about before having a baby?

Married folks who wrote your own vows…how long did they take you to write? My fiancé just decided 3 weeks before our wedding that she wants us to write our own vows. While you’re here if I can vent f… more

Indian 32 Female Even after 6 years of marriage I don't like my husband at all. Can't/won't Divorce him coz I am a coward and won't be able to face judgements Although I'm already … more

Male 37, Chicago. I’m athletic build and divorced in the last year, looking for a fresh start. Anyone wanna chat?

Girlfriend and I have been dating for a long time throughout college. Lots of changes through the years, career and all. Went from a failing college student to somewhat of a decent accountant. Im not … more

How hard is it to date post divorce (with small kids)?

I'm looking for a gift ideas possibly fishing kit for beginners. I don't know a thing about this so brand, type, equipment, any recommendations are appreciated.

My SO deals with some chronic injuries that I think may make him feel emasculated (eg can’t lift as much weight, sometimes has to slow down when active). We’re both in our 20s. I help when he needs/o… more

I feel like I’m rushing myself to get into a relationship and overthinking. As in always looking for a girl to ask out. I feel like I should let it happen naturally and not deciding which girl is bett… more

My girlfriend of 2 years told me today she wants to break up, I was in shock and couldn’t respond much at all. We’ve been separated for the best part of a year (her in another country), and she came b… more

My SO had a career change, went back to school, and just started with his new job. He is struggling a bit and is very stressed out. What can I do to help?

Anybody here that few up in household where mom or dad had an affair? How did it affect your romantic relationships/beliefs/outcomes in adulthood?

I am long distance with my boyfriend and am feeling really unsettled about our relationship. We’ve been together 9 months, and long distance for 4/ 9. I love him and am lonely while distanced, but sup… more

Anyone know how to deal with the “girl best friend?” My boyfriend insists she is just a friend but she seems a bit too friendly and while I trust him I don’t trust her?

How do I propose to my girlfriend?!?! Can I crowdsource some ideas?

Is it possible to (know you) love someone without having overcome a big conflict, endured a major relationship hurdle (e.g., long distance), or sustained through tough times (e.g., family death, job l… more

I met a couple girls through a friend and they’re both really smart and fun to be with. I’ve been thinking about getting back in the dating scene but don’t know which one to ask out. They’re both frie… more

My boyfriend has given soo many red flags over the past year but we’ve been trying to make it work. Heated arguments consistently every other week. We disagree on a lot of “expectations” in a relation… more

Hopelessly fallen for someone who is already engaged!! 🤦‍♂️

Going to Orlando for my gf’s graduation, with her, her sister, and her sister’s friend. Her sister bought a package that includes flights and Disney resort stay for a couple nights. We’re supposed to … more

Long-distance relationship - what are the tips and practices that can help maintain the relationship for couples ~5 years into working?

I’ve been dating a guy for couple weeks now. He asks me out every weekend but only text me one or two days before the date and after the date. So basically he doesn’t text me at all for 2-3 days a wee… more

I’m having a hard time understanding responsibilities in a relationship vs a best friend. Once I start going on dates with someone, I notice how inattentive they can be or emotionally unavailable at t… more

How would you identify what your needs are from your SO?

Not sure how many on here can relate to this...does anyone else who was raised a Jehovah’s Witness ever find it extremely hard to date? Anytime I tell someone I grew up not celebrating Xmas or birthd… more

Spending a weekend with my fiancé’s family out of town and quite literally my future FIL burps out loud 10x a day with no shame and his mom is a narcissistic monster in law just have no clue how these… more

My boyfriend and I have decided to move in together after essentially living together for all of covid. We also happen to be moving to a new city - a city I’ve wanted to live in for awhile and he happ… more

Anyone else reaching a point in your marriage where you both don’t care to be together, but don’t know what steps to do? Obviously divorce would be the best option, but I personally don’t have any ani… more

Looking for a bit of advice on how to move on/not feel so angry at myself. I started dating someone in September 2019, shortly after turning 29. She was 24. It was my first relationship since college … more