Don’t think if my self as depressed, but definitely struggling to give a sh!t recently. Covid, WFH and the craziness of the political drama is definitely a factor, but can’t help but think age and career point is more so - struggling to get excited after 30+ years of the grind.
Looking for suggestions

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The troubling news is that you're not alone with your feelings. I have similar thoughts and I talk with several colleagues who feel the same way.

Part of it is the changing dynamic of our profession. It seems expectations and responsibilities increase each year but quality and number of supporting resources doesn't keep up. Feels like more and more falls on shoulders of PPEDs.

Hang in there.

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Partner principal executive director - perhaps new to you but has been an acronym for 20+ years

Agree with you both . The demands and expectations increase . It’s not attainable . Burn out eventually sets in .

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Precisely why I left consulting after my 20+ years.

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You are totally not alone here. After 20+ years in consulting, dealing with aging parents, and going thru the pandemic/last 12 months - I am totally fried and find it hard to get motivated every morning. I am seriously not sure if I will be able to make it thru another year and am starting to think of my options.

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I'm about to bail as well. Get my counselees and the DTE through performance awards in June / July / September and then exit stage left.

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Covid isolation was very hard. Being single and living alone magnified it for me and tone deaf colleagues ending every call with “enjoy your holiday or long weekend with your family” in the Dec timeframe made it infuriating. I am trying now to reconnect with friends in the nicer weather, and starting to do more with volunteer work and sports. Fill up my time with things I enjoy and block out the boring job, on a dying project, where I barely stay busy all day.

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How are you all looking for other opportunities ? Executive recruiter ? Relationships?

Right there with you. I actually left industry to come back to consulting 5 years ago. Finding it hard to give a shit about anything. Hubby had a minor health issue that then turned into a major one after being misdiagnosed at the hospital last week so that was just the icing on the cake.

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