Hi guys,
Last month my engagement is done and marriage is in march. But I rarely can able to talk with her over call and we only converse over WhatsApp chat that too very normal conversations. I totally understand that we can't talk over call daily as she works 6 days a week and she has to travel around 2 hours and reach home around 9 PM.
But I feel it is really necessary to connect over call also.
Continue in chat......

I understand this might be difficult to hear, but if you’re always the one initiating conversations—even after she said she’d text you later and didn’t—you may want to reflect on the situation

To be honest, this pattern is common in girls. Many people claim they are good at starting conversations, but when it comes to getting to know each other, it often becomes one-sided.
If male is always asking questions or driving the conversation while the other person doesn’t reciprocate or show interest, it raises the question of what they truly want from the connection..The same ladies think that They are matured, individual and strong.

What’s the point of “getting to know each other” if it’s a one-man show?
you’re essentially texting a wall. It’s like, “Text me, entertain me, but don’t expect me to care or ask anything in return.”

From my experience, I’ve stepped away from friendships for this very reason.
If they need something? Oh, they’ll text you faster than a lightning bolt. But for actual connection? Nope. So, I just stay calm, help them when necessary if i can, keep in checks with them and wait for my stuff to be returned. Once that’s done, I’m out.


In such cases, even friendships can struggle to last betwen a male and female .
If maintaining a friendship is difficult, consider whether a deeper relationship, such as one leading to marriage, could withstand this dynamic?

Take your time, think it through, and make a decision that feels right for you.
Dont think of society of your decision, cause engagement is completed.
Bettet to take a wise decision now itself.


Evem if she still didnt did - you better call it off bro. A cancelled marriage with engagement is much more better than a divorce later.
What if ita the same even after the marriage! Just think.

I guess there is nothing as important that you cant text a person for 2 days straight!

Bro better to call off the engagement.

I support all the suggestions on this thread. You are getting red signs, learn and move on

Even when we talk over chats. She talks a bit then she tells to talk to me later and then no messages will come from her side. I have to only message her. This is keep on repeating. I feel really frustrated. I am not even able to know her or talk to her properly because of these things. I feel like breaking the marriage.
If this is happening now and after marriage also continues then not sure what will happen.
I am really worried.
Guys please suggest what should I do.

It’s been more than one and half days and she haven’t message me once. Since she told me she will message me once free. I am feeling really disheartened.

I understand

i have been gone through the exact situation you are facing... better to call off the marriage as the same thing i did ...

She is not interested bro call off the wedding

Happy Marriage Bro

Ky hua final