Even if they have a difficult job what’s the least amount cadence you should see the person you are dating… feels like I don’t see them anymore

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If we just started dating, every couple weeks. If we’ve been in a relationship for a while, at least once a week on a bad week. When I travel for work or have other stuff going on, I prioritize seeing my partner before I leave and when I get back

Is distance a factor as well?

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Distance is not a factor

At least 2-3 times a week. Some weeks may be hit or miss but I would limit those misses to no more than once a month if you see them for less than the 2-3 times that week.

Yea at least 2x a week if in relationship

What's difficult? There's a big difference between 50 hours and 80 hours. But I'd say at least once a week.

If you are having to ask for more time, maybe your Partner just isn't into you as much as you are into him. Try focusing on you, your hobbies and your happiness outside of your relationship, and see how much effort your Partner puts into maintaining his connection with you. If he isn't making an effort to see you, then maybe this isn't the right relationship. Begging for more time doesn't sound like a winning approach to finding your person...

But talk about it - it might just be a particularly busy or stressful time at work for him so this might be temporary. Or he may just be the type who only wants a very part-time relationship which may not work for you and your needs.

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