Hi girls, i recently broke up with a guy whom i dated for 2years, though things were clear from my end that i won’t be getting married to him(because of family). Initially everything was good, but after he found a nee job everything changed, i miss him everyday not even a day goes by when I’m not thinking about him. Can you guys suggest me how to move on.

Get busy with your work. Doesn't matter how hard it is, still show up to work. Go out with friends, have new hobbies, join for some class which you are interested in.

Find the purpose of your life. Sounds bit spiritual. But when u know it, u will start realising why you are here and what change you can bring in other's life, what kind gesture you can show when someone is in similar pain just like you.

Self love is the key. Be confident, learn new activity which u always wanted to learn. It can be singing, dancing, swimming, painting, cooking, online courses etc.

Pour all your love and care to one who loves you. Like siblings, friends, family. Please come out from the trap.

Believe that everything happens for God reason and God is with you.

Hi, I am so sorry that you are hurting over him. But the best way is to move forward. Just let the thoughts keep coming about him and make you uncomfortable and over a period of time it will become comfortable and make it easy to move on. But whenever you are getting the thoughts of him remember the worst times which will remind you of why you guys broke up in the first place, this will make you feel better about your breakup. And slowly start having different hobbies, change your circle of friends where this guy is not mentioned or is not a common friend. Hope this helps. Stay strong and don't look back

If he doesn't want to get married, let it be. Try to move on that's it. Look forward and hope for the best. Make yourself a priority.

Hi ! I know it's hard for us to do this but sometimes as a woman you need to keep your emotions aside for sometime and think logically.This guy will not put any efforts in having you back as he doesn't see any long-term potential with you (since you already told him you can't get married to him).It will hurt for few months but it's better to move on from this guy.

Actually until the time he was in my team, he took way too many efforts, but after he found a new role at an organisation he started replying late to me, v v less calls. Also when i asked his colleague( our common friend) do you people have extra work load( since my ex used to tell me i am busy with work that’s why i end up replying late) he said no we have great WLB plus that guy plays pool in office so definitely he’s not occupied.

Also after i broke up with him( 1month ago) he keeps on mailing me since I have blocked him from every platform. In his mails he didn’t even mention for once that you come back and we’ll fix things. I taunted him for the same.

Thank you so much! Actually the thing is he doesn’t want me back in his life. He keeps on mailing me, i can’t really block him on gmail. His mails goto spam folder, i end up checking spam too everyday! He very halfheartedly writes to me how’re you how are things going, but never says come back. I replied to him over e-mail that even for once you didn’t write come back and we’ll fix things. So after reading this mail he wrote me twice can we get back to normal. But it was v v halfheartedly.

Can you suggest ways to divert my mind

Did you from your side tell him whole heartedly that you want him back? You were clear from the start right? Then why are you expecting him to do everything 100% when you blocked him?