I’m currently finishing my PhD while raising a toddler, and I feel like I’m failing at both about 90% of the time. My male advisor keeps talking about grind culture and staying in the lab until midnight, which is just physically impossible for me. Is it actually possible to reach the top of a field without sacrificing your personal life entirely? Or are we just pretending that the all-in culture isn't inherently biased against parents?

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I'd reach out and ask for another advisor, preferably a woman. I went to school online and did most of the work while they were in bed and stayed up til almost midnight every night when I had to get up and work in the morning and get my kids to school the next morning. It's not long term and eventually kids will get themselves to the bus on their own. Its tough, but you're tougher and got this. Keep going. It's worth it in the end.

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