Relationships

How do you mentally prepare yourself for a potential breakup?

Been dating my SO for several years now but we've hit a rough patch the last half year. She's been very distant from me and starts fights more … more

I’ve had 3 dates with someone and they’ve been good I’m cautious after my last relationship and I want to take things slow but also I admit I’m way to used to live on my own and set in my ways. My las… more

I matched with this guy and we are both looking for long term relationships but also not looking to rush this. I’m having a hard time balancing out my high libido and his. We haven’t met yet but it do… more

Wonder if there are any girls here who dated a shy guy. Could you make it work at the end? How difficult was it for hin to make the first move?

The term “not meeting needs” sounds so controlling and demanding. I agree with making requests in a relationship and working together to make each other happy. But demanding someone meet your “needs” … more

I'm fearful avoidant... Anyone else here the same? How did you get secure? Need help before I self sabotage...

If a married couple (with a dog lol) signed their holiday card as “The Smith Family” - would that be weird to you?

A close guy friend called me a few years ago just a few weeks after he met his wife and told me she was the one and he was going to marry her and that most men normally know in the first few months if… more

About to give dating apps another chance… for the 30th time 🥲

If your partner makes 3 million dollars a year would you quit your job or keep working at your job? What else, if any, would you change behavior wise?

Have any of you had a relationship go south or maybe just hot and cold and you decided to focus on yourself and in Your head you think “hmm maybe once I’m notable in my career or making lots of money and am super… more

I'm trying to figure out how I feel about love, whether I'm actually in love or not. I want to give in to everything my SO says but also want to be my own person. Giving in would mean an easy … more

Have any women had genuine experiences dating a man at least 5 years younger? And for men who have dated older women by a similar age gap, how did it work out? Was it challenging?

Does anyone here secretly enjoy being naughty?

SO he told me he loved me for the first time because the moment felt right and memorable.. should I be concerned? I asked if he actually meant it though and he said yes (but I mean what else would he … more

Can we talk psychology? My current fiancée was an independent woman type when I met her. Didn’t really want kids, wanted to travel and make money, loathed submissive types and all that. Then started d… more

I’m a 32m. Dating this 32f, and she is really into me. Responds promptly to all my calls and texts back with conversational responses. While I’m (somewhat) into her, there’s a nagging feeling that I’m… more

Any updates

Anyone else can’t resist pushing people away if you’re sure they like you but aren’t sure if they like you a whole lot so you’d rather do things to make them end things? Like at a subconscious level. … more

My boyfriend is a trader and all of his coworkers along with him makes a couple bucks a year. We decided on a 3.5 ct ring which I think it makes sense. I have asked him to check what his coworkers gav… more

What are men thinking relationship wise at 28yrs old or about to be 29?

It’s holiday time which means one week of dealing with obnoxious and idiotic in laws. Remember that you’re marrying your partners family as well as them. Choose wisely…

Women who love their husbands /partners but feel you’re not getting / having enough sex. What do you do?? How do you not build resentment?

People who SAVED your failing marriage or relationship, what was the turning point where things started to go bad, and what did you need to do to save it?

Dudes, out of curiosity, if you meet a girl and find out she was a college athlete, does that make her more attractive to you?

Seriously tired of dating apps
Any man out here for me ready for a serious talk 🤭

Anyone here used a dating coach? Curious what the experience was.

One of my colleague is facing an abusive marriage. How can I help her

Are you always nice/polite with your SO? I am but people often warn me I'll be taken advantage of. Sometimes if I'm in a mood ill be somewhat sarcastic, but then I feel bad if I was bossy or p… more

Genuinely curious if any one pays for dating apps and their experiences.

rule with 90% success rate to detect a**holes: men who don’t smile in their profile photos. They’ve either overdosed on Andrew Tate alpha male dominance content or have deep insecurities that they wil… more

Tired of dating apps. Random people or random bots. Any female down to grab dinner or drinks and have a real conversation in real life?

Hate to do this, but can yall like this post so I have enough “love” to accept chat invites. Thank you!

If someone’s past relationships bother me, do I need to let her go or try to overcome the thoughts.

I’m 5 weeks pregnant. My husband came home in a pissed off mood and picked a fight with me at dinner. He then gave our toddler a bath and asked me to come into bathroom 3 times to talk, which I said n… more

I was buying jewelry today and the lady asked how old I was and when I was getting married 🫠😔 I’ve never felt so behind in my life. I’m 28 and single.

How do you deal with money as a couple? Separate accounts? One pool?

Online daters: drop your age, gender, and age filter on the app 😎