Do you think it is easier to overcome cheating in a relationship that has or does not have children involved? Listening to an interesting podcast and would love to know peoples take on the topic

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Children may make it harder to leave the relationship. But doesn’t make it easier to “overcome cheating”, or getting over the hurt and betrayal. Children has no correlation to it at all.

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Children might make it complicated and also force the couple to compromise. However the trust factor will take time to recover. Personally I think that if a couple doesn't have children and one of them cheats, they should just move on.

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Don’t take this as somebody condoning cheating or somebody who has experience with this but I think the reason matters more than the kids or not. Understanding why, and if you both want to fight for it is more important in my opinion. Agree that kids make it harder to split up. That said, it may still be healthier to break up.

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