Let’s talk about the people who make things worse by pretending everything’s fine. The ones who smile when things just suck, defend leadership at all costs, and tell you to stay positive. Are they surviving or enabling?

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

People who smile through it? Eh, I think they might be trying to make the best of a bad situation. People who defend leadership 👎🏻👎🏻

It's funny, I pretty much recognize some of my coworkers by your descriptions. I'm okay when people make jokes about things going wrong, it's better to laugh than cry. And I don't mind if someone tries to be positive in the face of adversity. But defending poor management by putting on a fake happy attitude is just the worst. I can't respect anyone doing that.

I think sometimes it starts as surviving and slowly turns into enabling. When “stay positive” replaces honest conversation, it can protect the system more than the people in it.

I used to do this and it was absolutely smiling through the pain, sometimes you just want to get through your day and that's what matters.

Related Posts

I had applied in Infosys but the application was rejected after scheduling interview. They said they will but they did not. My ex colleague tried but refer me later but it says another application already exists.
When can I apply again??

like

How do you get comfortable eating alone at a restaurant?

like

What’s your take on Ackman’s CNBC interview in light of his bet on credit spreads?

like

Ok, my favorite singer comes THIS WEEK for an interview ❗❗❗
I'm excited about the opportunity of proving my capabilities, but I also don't want to miss the chance of getting a picture or maybe an autograph.
Is it ok if I ask for it? Or is it too invasive?

like

Hello Cisco,
I am an immediate joiner.
Skills
SELENIUM java qa automation 4+ years of experience jenkins

Post Photo
smart

What grade level/ classes does everyone teach?

I teach high school
- studio art
- drawing and painting
And starting next year a new graphic design course. 😊

like

I’m not having harmful thoughts but I’m so sad and scared I wake up in the night crying. It makes me tired and I can barely focus. Ideas?

Has anyone ever had an attorney throw work on them at the last minute?

like

Hi All,

How long do ppl in the US generally take leaves in December for vacation?
Only last couple of weeks or the entire month?

Anyone ever get hired as a senior to a different firm in under two years?

like
like
like

What is the salary range for a Product Manager in the Atlanta area? I have 3 years of experience as a Product Specialist and have been offered a Product Manager role but don’t know how much to ask for. It’s in fintech. Any insight is appreciated!

like

🌟 Things to Do Thursday 🌟
What's happening in Raleigh? Use this thread to share events, concerts, holiday markets, or anything else that's going on in the area this weekend!

like

Is there any sort of job that would allow an employee to fly all over the country on business for their company? Looking for roles that allow me to do that and travel! I’m mid-20s and few years work experience. Tired of the boring and slow as molasses work environment at the bank. TIA!

like

Is anyone referring to Amazon U.S.? I'm interested in applying, here's my dog

Post Photo
like

Hi Fishes,

I need likes to enable the DM. Could you please hit a like ?

Thanks 😊.

likesmarthelpful

Is it worth going back to school for my MBA, I’m really trying to get into consulting but I’m not sure if I can work my way their with experience or if the degree will help that

like

Hello Fishes,

Which Is better company to join for optum or ey?

Thanks

like

What’s the right age difference? My friends set me up on a date with a girl who is 12 years younger to me. I was feeling so uncomfortable all through my dinner with her.

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal