Anyone in here NY-based? I’m feeling really stagnant and wondering if NY is calling. The market I’m in is lame and there isn’t much opportunity at my current spot. Keep it real - what’s it like?

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I’ve lived in NYC 10 years now and about to raise a child in the city. It’s a hustle and money never seems to be enough but I grew up in the NJ suburbs so know the difference and that I would prefer to stay in the city. Also, it makes it a lot easier when you have family here to help. I don’t know how many job opportunities there are right now but I hear companies are starting to hire again.

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There are a lot of NYC people here I’m sure. I lived in NYC, then moved to Jersey City to have kids and then moved to NJ suburbs for more space. I just found it really hard to have kids in NY, but tons of people do it. I’m happy where I am now. Lots off former Brooklynites here.

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There are a ton of NYC people on here.
It’s a brilliant place to live and work but not for everyone.
You’ll have to make a lot of changes in how to do pretty much everything.
you probably drive now- you’ll have to walk home with bags of groceries in the rain/snow/heat.
You probably have a bedroom (with a door) for a reasonable price - in NYC you’ll have a very small space, pay a lot and might not have a bedroom door.
You may live at a normal daily pace where you are now - in NYC everyone is in a hurry and many people are just plain rude.
However... Ive lived here 9 years and still love it. It’s an experience that’s not for everyone but the positives outweigh the negatives any day:
Endless work opportunities / always something to do or explore / you’re never ‘alone’ just go for a walk and you’ll likely meet at least one person you stop to chat with / parks everywhere / you don’t have to drive / cuisine of every kind / convenience... get anything delivered at any time.
Just be sure your mentally ready to make a life change then jump in. It’s tough at first on new people but if you want to be here you’ll enjoy it.
Good luck!

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It’s fun here for sure. Here ten years, have a 6 month old baby. It’s definitely TOUGH with kids, especially if you don’t have a support system of helpful grandparents around. But still fun. Man, childcare is so fricking expensive.

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FWIW....I have lived in NY before but moved to get married (which isn’t working out). I also have 2 kids under 5. Even with time and all the other stuff, I can’t seem to flush it out of my system. Am I insane?

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