I always get super nervous talking to senior people, and I feel like my anxiety takes over. I know I can be personal and have great conversations, but when it comes to higherups, I tend to just freeze up. Does anyone else feel this way? How do you handle talking to senior people without letting the nerves get to you?

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I just remember they woke up went to the toilet, had a shower and brushed their teeth, thought about their own problems on the way to the work and they’re not so different to you and I

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That’s a great way to think about it! I’ll definitely try that next time. And you’re hilarious, I love the way you put it!

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I'm right there with you sis. It's always intimidating, but I try to remind myself that they’re just people too. I focus on being prepared, asking thoughtful questions, and staying present in the conversation. The more I practice, the easier it gets, but I still get nervous sometimes!

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Thank you! It really helps to know I’m not alone. I love your approach, and to be honest, I always come prepared and probably overprepared sometimes lol.

I’ve been making effort to just speak to our MD whenever I see him, but he definitely has an intimidating aura, last time he was very complimentary and I just stared at him awkward. All this to say yes!

I totally get that! I’d probably do the same thing and just freeze. But props to you for making the effort!

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