I feel like when I’m busy with work, I don’t even want to reply to attractive guys. Is this normal?

39M in West LA, looking to meet someone for drinks and see where things go! (Never married, no kids)

Any tips for hard launching partners on social media? For context, I’ve (Indian American female) been dating my white American boyfriend for 3 years and we just got engaged after two years of convincing my parents. They are very happy and excited now, but I’m scared shitless about being ostracized / judged by my extended family and Indian community in the US once I “let the cat out of the bag” on the engagement news. I want to be proud and confident about this but could use some moral support.

What's your date of Jalsa??

I love when randomly talking to a straight man and they out of nowhere say “I have a girlfriend” all shaky and nervous. It gives DL guys in sweatpants tease and that I’m doing something right 😂

Haven’t done the dating thing in a while so need advice! (F here) Met a guy at a party on Sat, followed each other on insta, then I dm’ed him my number saying “lmk if you want to get drinks sometime”. He then texts me and says something along the lines of “yeah let’s do it” but doesn’t offer any concrete plan. Does this mean he’s not super into it? Or am I overreacting and I should initiate the plan? I initiated the insta follow and the dm so I feel like it’s his turn…?

29M Boston, athletic fit. Looking for something serious. DM me

30M based in nyc. Any F ready for casual dating? Happy to DM if interested.

How’s the dating scene in Austin? Any advice for a single 30 yr old Male who recently moved here?

If you aren’t straight, was there a public figure that made you realize this? My first memorable girl crush was Nigella Lawson, a British celebrity chef nearly twice my age.

I blacked out and hit on a coworker at a work-related event. I would never have normally done it (aside from the stupid amounts of alcohol in my system) and they are in a committed relationship, making everything so much worse.

No idea how I’m going to interact with them in basically every meeting I have for now until I leave the company.

I’m 27 years old, fit, cute, very well educated. Looking for a serious relationship!

Anyone who said no to a prospect because of personal reasons? Going through a rough patch and would really appreciate some advise on how to do it without burning (that many) bridges.

Any recommendations for a day date dress watch under 5K? Going to be my daily beater.

How probable is it to schedule dropbox appt today and get a date within next 3 weeks in India?

Not having luck finding a relationship or having any guys interested in me for 28 years. Thinking about resorting to plastic surgery to increase my chances of finding somebody

Met this really cute guy at national training, exchanged phone number, but he's heading back to home office tomorrow. Advice?

What is the average salary of a Senior 1?

Is it normal for senior managers to ask you to cancel leaves or to nit apply leaves in EY GDS? My manager told in all hands meeting yesterday to not apply leaves during tear end. Won’t this become a hr issue?

Are rooftop bars considered outdoor + won’t have curfew anymore? If not does anyone know any bars/restaurant with drinks in midtown that are outdoor

PwC -- where can I check how much holiday and vacation I have accrued? Since need to use up holiday code before June 30. I heard the vacation Amount shown on the talentlink isn't accurate. Thanks!

I got an offer from teksystems India for hpe client. My question is what will happen if someday HPE don't want us to work for them anymore or maybe project development ends...so will teksystems move us to different client within 2 month (as they say) or will they fire us?

Secondly how is tbe appraisal cycle at teksystems India? How are the benefits?

Rewatching Brokeback Mountain, which came out 15 years ago (hard to believe that). Anyway, it's still an outstanding, devastating film (and love story) that I think if had been released 10 years later would have easily won best picture and best actor for Heath Ledger.

I’ll be taking a look at all the recent SPACs that had huge runs. The plan is to watch for momentum to start fading and play some puts at or around merger votes. A lot of these plays are priced to perfection on revenues 5+ years away. Will some make it big? Yes. Will some fail, yes. Also starting to watch the warrant exercise requirements. All of these have huge supply coming to market and I plan to be on the other side of the retail suckers

I'm thinking about getting a dog. Good or bad idea while working in PA? How do you balance having a pet during busy season? I live alone.

Fresh grad, just started work in the US (~1 month in) but want to move back to Dubai due to personal reasons. Will hitting the 6m mark (1y won’t be possible - immigration) be helpful? (Cont)

For those of you on medication, how do you manage delayed flights causing you to miss appointments? Often, cancellation policies are strict, expensive, and require several days notice.

Is it mandatory to pass Barclays GSC test after completing people screening and joining after 2 weeks? I got the email now.

What are the clouds on which Cyntexa works?

Any recommendation on under eye cream for wrinkle??? Thank you!

Hi all,
I am getting a lot of calls for sap abap hana openings which wasn't the case last yr dec or this year, jan (when market was on fire). While people keep on saying recession, Slowdown in IT hiring etc, i want to understand from people here. Please share thoughts/opinions regarding market, hiring, salaries and all. Thanks, fishes.

I think I am an average ABAPer but hardworking.
Having 2.1 year experience in SAP ABAP also trained on ABAP on Hana and odata gateway. Trying to get basics of ui5.

By considering above all if i give started to look for switch from Jan end (2.4 yoe considering) then till what CTC i can ask to other company or how much market can give me in current period?

Please reply..

Going through first full cycle with EY as Advisory PI Manager in Tier 2 city.

What in your experience is average raise for high performer vs meets expectations?

How does Strategy & Consulting differ from Business & Tech Integration? It appears to me, looking at the profiles of people in these different divisions, that most of the time at the Consultant-ish level, both divisions are just providing Business Analysts? What am I missing?

Quick poll for single guys : how often do you have random hookups?

Why is it that a lot of couples I know living in big cities are in open relationship?

Been seeing a guy for the past few months. Went to watch a movie on Netflix last night and saw that my ex is in a new series. Talk about mood killer. Now I can’t stop thinking about him 😞
He tends to pop in to my head at least once a month. How can I move past this?

Any openly T fish here? Or non binary fish that have undergone FTM top surgery?

So who has tried the direct message feature?

The new junior on my team is from the South and refers to me as “Sir” and it’s making me feel all kinds of ways. How to proceed from here?

Does lululemon usually release a collection for pride?

Deloitte 🌈🐠 - raise your hand if you are going to DU this week!

Regret it but I reach to 5-6 times a day . What’s your count ? 🤪

Blow me one last kiss 😘

I accept follow requests left & right without following back and without shame. What does this say about me besides that I and, let’s say Beyoncé, are generally very similar?

Miami for Memorial Day long weekend, anyone? Or any recommendations for this weekend ?

Hooked up with a guy I really like in Montreal, too bad I live in the States :(

Well I recently told a guy I have been seeing I have HSV-2. We have not yet been physical but it’s been heading that direction. Man I hate this part - waiting to see what his response will be after he researches and talks to his doctor. I’m on daily meds which help reduce transmission risk. You’d think that since HSV-2 affects 20% of Americans and likely a higher % of gay men, there would be less taboo but it’s hardly ever talked about. Anyone else in my shoes? Or had it disclosed to them?

Dealing with my firm's Foreign Accounts Payable team and keep snickering at the FAP acronym 😋

I’m worried that my voice, communication style, and body language comes across as too effeminate for our straight clients and peers. I’m transitioning to sales now and am insecure that my personality and appearance may hinder sales gen? Client industry is very old school. Can LGBT partners//Ds/MDs chime in how they managed the same transition?

So hard to date while being a consultant. Any luck fellow fish ?

Someone I’ve started seeing uses they/them pronouns. I’m trying my best but still feel like I make mistakes. When I want to address them is it ok to say how are you or should I say how are they?