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Licensed private investigator in Los Angeles focusing primarily on the LGBTQ market. I am a gay, ex-Military Policeman who served under Don't Ask, Don't Tell.

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AFTER MONTHS!! im FINALLY employed!!

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hey is the discord channel still around? can someone post the link?

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This bowl’s been quiet for a minute, so let’s do a check in.

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42F lesbian got out of a 14 year relationship almost a year ago, and felt ready to start dating again. Finding it frustrating to meet ladies and start dating again 🤦🏼‍♀️

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I need a well paying job any job at all weather is company work or factory anything that's all the fact that it is decent work I'm in for

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Are there any good workplace discrimination lawyers who specialize in LGBTQ representation in Texas?

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2016 is a decade ago, it’s nuts!

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Anyone in Atlanta for Black Gay Pride?

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Shoot your shot, brahs.

Go say hi to that cute guy at the bar or coffee shop.

The apps are done. Doesn’t everyone know that at this point?

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Has anyone tried Luvvly dating? So over the apps.

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