LGBTQIA+ 🐠

Anyone else in here not like sex? Or is this not normal?

I’ve hooked up with a guy twice this week. We have some stuff in common - like similar home style, clothing, sports, vers, etc. We haven’t been super texty - but we have both initiated texts. I was thinki… more

I am a gay man based in the UK, I am really struggling financially with living pay to pay and cant access credit. My biggest challenge is i dont want pity or support from friends or partner but incom… more

What do “needy bottoms” mean ? Can anyone explain for me please?

Looking to go on my first cruise in the next couple of months, likely to the Bahamas. Atlantis is not my scene but would prefer a gay friendly environment.

Those who have cruised, what lines would you … more

Where the gurgaon gays at? 🥺☺️

On Prep, having foreplay (like kissing) with HIV undetectable partner, what’s the transmission rate?

Libertarians/conservative gay men: how to deal with our restrict dating pool? In which country/city its easier to find our own people?

Thoughts on a 24 / 36 year old (gay) relationship? We've been dating for almost a year, officially a couple for 6 months - thinking of moving in together

I dated this guy who ended up asking to just be friends. We continued to spend a ton of time together - we get along exceptionally well. Then he kissed me, I told him I liked him, he freaked, I vocali… more

Does anyone take pure for men? It’s not working for me … 🙄

How do you all handle hanging with a guy on a date and your apps alert like the grindr thing goes off? It’s always so awkward. Do you just act like it isn’t happening or acknowledge it? Either your ap… more

Tried to talk to a guy I thought was cute last night…literally just said “how’s your night?” And he walked away without acknowledging me. I think the younger me would’ve taken it personally but I’m ac… more

Started listening to the Britney audiobook on Spotify. Super depressing :/

How to deal with unrequited love without cutting off someone I feel important to my life?I feel super anxious and crazy to think of him 24/7 and can’t stop thinking of him. I even don’t want to go on … more

Hey friends- anyone can recommend a divorce lawyer in Los Angeles? Friend dealing though a very difficult situation.

Hi please help! I just started dating someone and he is a couple years older. We have very similar backgrounds and connected very quickly. Our first date was a 4 hour dinner and then a couple days lat… more

Any other musicals like dear Evan Hansen you guys like?

I “love” how this is the only bowl I’m in that always has questions that should be on Reddit instead. 🙄

Just a shout out to all the loved ones of trans folks. You matter and you are loved. It can work, don’t give up!

Any tips on getting back into the dating pool after a breakup?

To the people who are attracted to men in this bowl do you prefer cut or uncut?

How do you know if you are a lesbian?

Any gay male with experience with going on gay cruises? I am going on my first time in January and I would like some advice on how to prepare and what to expect. ☺️🙃

I find fighting with martial arts guys hot, seriously, rolling with BJJ guys get me hard. Is it bad??

Is anyone in any really good discord groups you can invite me to join. Bored and looking to learn pass the time.

Any other moderate/right leaning folks on here?

Best companies for trans IT positions? Remote would be great!

Thanks!

Best countries to move to as a lesbian married couple? I am Italian and my wife is French and we'd like to relocate outside Europe in the next few years. Ideally we would like to find a country wh… more

Funny story! I (29F) had a hugeee crush on someone at work in Toronto. I was convinced she was also into women but I decided to play the long game. We had flirty banter and I was confident that she was into me.

F… more

I had unprotected oral sex without being on Prep, now I’m being super anxious about contracting HIV. I know the risk is low but it’s not risk free. Should I get PEP?

Am I crazy to be getting into a thing with a guy who says he’s in a long distance semi relationship that he recently opened upon moving away from the guy? Ambiguity for sure. But found some chemistry … more

Exiting a 6-year relationship on a very positive note. However, I feel the need to do some readings on how to have healthy gay relationships, what are the watch out, what are good habits, etc. My friend is also j… more

Hello I am looking for a entry level / intern level role in digital marketing. I’m looking to gain experience and grown in the industry. If anyone is looking for either of these roles I’d love to con… more

Should I ask them to return my unique and expensive jacket?
I left it at their place when we were dating, and even though we broke up, they never returned it and have been wearing it for almost a year… more

Recently got broken with by my ftm best friend (dating for the second time, dumb I know), and I don't know how to move past it. I am always FAR happier when I'm with them and I don't know … more

I'm currently in my 30s and single. I didn't come out in my family. As I progress in my career, I've noticed the young colleagues, particularly the queers, look up to me. Perhaps in the pr… more

Went on a few dates with a guy, I have no chemistry with him, but he actually sent a text and rejected me first. While I paid for his drinks last time and he wants to Venmo me back, is it cheap if I give hi… more