Are there others in long term relationships that have relationship issues? I know there is love in our relationship but I am realizing there are a lot of lies in our relationship. It’s mostly coz of h… more

Question for the Chicago boys and girls - I’m interviewing for a job, and the location for the hybrid position has changed to Lafayette, Indiana, about two hours from Chicago. I'm trying to decide whether it … more

I'm going on my first ever trip with a bunch of gay men and tbh I'm dreading it. I don't want to go to an underwear party, why don't we go on a hike or on the architecture tour instead… more

I feel like I no longer fancy hook up, is this an age thing? Even with hot guys. I barely respond to anyone on apps anymore 😔

Happy Pride to everyone! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚫️🟤

My teen child just opened up about gender preference. Im not sure if this is a phase. At what age did you know and how can I provide support and guidance?

Don’t you feel like dating apps are getting even worst?
People don’t respond… if they respond are to hookup…
How do you deal with the loneliness in the community?

what are the most queer friendly companies right now? ones that actually feel inclusive, not just say they are

Licensed private investigator in Los Angeles focusing primarily on the LGBTQ market. I am a gay, ex-Military Policeman who served under Don't Ask, Don't Tell.

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I’m supposed to travel for work next week, and I’m kind of nervous about having my gender marker X on my real id, especially with everything this administration is doing. Any advice or experience from… more

I’m 38, single, and work in consulting. The 10–12 hour days are catching up with me. I’m often so drained that I need a nap just to get through the evening. I’m a high performer, on track for partner, and recentl… more

Anyone here ever struggled with the idea that they might be ace? I’ve tried to date men for so long and was just never into the physical side of things and so I thought I might be gay but I’m not real… more

Why do we not see sexual revolutions happening in homophobic countries like the west in the 60s-000s? Things changed in the USA because of struggle, I see online content from people in these repressiv… more

AFTER MONTHS!! im FINALLY employed!!

I wish u all the same!!!

hey is the discord channel still around? can someone post the link?

Hey y’all, hope you’re doing well.

I’ve been applying on so many stores since March 1st, in the new town I’ve moved into (more than 50 stores), online and in-person. But I keep getting ghosted or simply rejected barely 5 minutes after ap… more

Sad day for Colorado 😔 the statistics show the immense harm in conversion therapy for LGBTQ+ youth

Houston: Anyone in this bowl from Houston? Would love some recommendation on good restaurants, bars, clubs, and general fun stuff to do.

This bowl’s been quiet for a minute, so let’s do a check in.

How is everyone feeling going into the summer? Any wins/losses from the past few months? Let’s talk about jobs, dating, life.

First post really just doing a vibe check

I'm very new to the employment market and found it very difficult to break through. It seems like there are no entry-level jobs anymore. How then does a newbie get work? Can anyone offer advice and tips to improve … more

Any Bi/Lesbian woman looking to chat with a 37F, feel free to DM me

I’m an international student, gay and 31yrs. I live in the Chapel Hill/Durham area of North Carolina and I started exploring dating through Hinge a month ago because I’m mostly introverted.

However, da… more

42F lesbian got out of a 14 year relationship almost a year ago, and felt ready to start dating again. Finding it frustrating to meet ladies and start dating again 🤦🏼‍♀️

I need a well paying job any job at all weather is company work or factory anything that's all the fact that it is decent work I'm in for

Since it’s Black History Month, I started Giovanni’s Room by James Baldwin. Has anyone read it? Because omg— it’s so good but also quietly devastating. Idk how I feel tbh.

What’s dating like for gay men in their 30s+ in LA? What works well? I’m considering a move and want to know what to expect. I’ve lived in NYC so I understand big city dating dynamics.

Not sure about the picture design and selection, but an excellent read in WIRED. The major takeaways unsurprising for those in the gay and lesbian business community in SF and NY, but curious how it will be received … more

Any DC gays in this bowl?

Are there any good workplace discrimination lawyers who specialize in LGBTQ representation in Texas?

Meeting his parents for the first time. Staying with them the weekend. Together 9 months. We are 37 they are 74. What should I bring as a host/hostess gift? I'd have to take it on the plane. (no a… more

Please, I am a serious and lovely gay versatile guy to have. I am tired of being single for a while and meeting a wrong and unserious guys tiring. Please get back to me if you are an honest man lookin… more

2016 is a decade ago, it’s nuts!

I keep hearing about relationships and how to find one. Here’s the thing, it’s all about mindset. Those who are relationship oriented, will find one especially if they’ve already been in one longer te… more

Well y’all. It happened. Long term partner and I broke up 😢 Just as I started a new job too. Where do we go these days for dating (when I’m ready)? And what is this sniffies I hear about? 35 yo gay m… more

Anyone in Atlanta for Black Gay Pride?

Shoot your shot, brahs.

Go say hi to that cute guy at the bar or coffee shop.

The apps are done. Doesn’t everyone know that at this point?

Has anyone tried Luvvly dating? So over the apps.