Need some advice… My wife and I were being intimate, and for the first time, I couldn't get aroused or maintain an erection. It was a bit embarrassing, and it's been on my mind since. I'm wondering—has anyone else experienced this? Is it normal once in a while, or should I consider talking to a doctor? Appreciate any honest advice.

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Don't sweat over it. It's always the effort that counts for us. Be open with your wife and let her try to help you overcome it if it becomes a recurring thing.

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Normal. Stress, life, tiredness all can contribute

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It’s nothing you are worrying about your performance. Then your mind become in confuse state. Best way to check your arosual watch porn and check if its stands or not. Or try outside with some random girl with whom you are comfortable. Still you facing the same issue then bro go to doctor or psychologist.

I've been there, and mentioned it to my doctor.
I was told not to worry it happens to most men eventually, and if it happens often, there are medications that work great. Doc also suggested having sex more often as a solution. We were in a bit of a cold phase at the time, and telling my wife,"doc says I need more sex more often" actually worked in my favor.
My advice would be to try again and again. If you keep having trouble, get a doctor.

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