There are some coworkers I struggle chatting with unless it’s a strictly work topic—and then that’s not chatting, right? One of them recently said to me at an after hours drinks event, “ do you mind if we leave work at work?” I was shocked! I mean i don’t love talking about work all the time, but what if you know nothing else about the person? Does anyone have some tried and true non-work topics? Bc we’re going to TopGolf this week, so I’m already stressing!

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At least TopGolf is fun! I would encourage you to talk about family, hobbies, pets, books you're reading… Ask a lot of questions instead of talking. People love to talk about themselves!

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Thanks!

Don't stress this, it's supposed to be fun! You sound a bit introverted like me, so I'd recommend doing what I try to do at these events: ask questions! Most people (not me) love talking about themselves. Ask something that gives them the opportunity and it'll take all the pressure off you.

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Thanks so much! Yes, very much an introvert!

Oh gosh, that would make me feel so awkward. I get what they are saying but sometimes that is really all you have to talk about with your coworkers.

Vacation is a go to topic. Works for men and women. Agree with the above. Just ask questions.

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