LGBTQIA+ 🐠

Hi fellas, early 30s single gay man moving to NJ soon. How is the gay scene in JC or Hoboken? Any tips on meeting new people, neighborhoods and/or rental buildings is much appreciated.

In bed vaping rn… and life is pretty good. Really grateful to be gay tonite 🤙🏻 Tbh, took a long time to get here, but I wouldn’t want to be anything else but the gay man that I am 👨🏼‍❤️‍👨🏽💪🏼🧔… more

I don’t get it why some guys are so entitled in their dating profile intro, like “I don’t care how much $$ you make, what’s your stats, etc.”. Clearly, you match, choose and block people for a reason.… more

I love my life. I live my career. I love my spiritual path. I have been single for three years by choice because I wanted to heal my inner being and learn to value myself and belief system. Each day I… more

I’m a very femme bi girl yet I always find myself crushing/hooking up w straight girls 🤦🏼‍♀️ how do you find hot chicks who are queer!?! Helppp

What are your thoughts on asking for your future in-laws blessing to propose? (Context: we’re both ~30 year old males)

Has anyone else experienced questioning your sexuality before committing to your partner?

It feels like self sabotage, but I’m having trouble getting past it.

Let’s talk dating profiles. What are some green flags you look for and red flags to watch out for?

Gay man here but curious to hear all perspectives.

Hi everyone i need some relationship advice as i dont have many older gays to look up to and ask this situation about. I am lesbian and have been with my girlfriend for the past year. She has dated me… more

For those who are in relationships, how old were you when you met, where did you meet and how long have you been together? I’m a 32 year old male and have been single for 6 years.

Where do you guys buy your men’s work dress shirts?? Looking for something high quality but also cute ☺️

Anyone else sometimes feel so unattractive they push their partner away because they don’t want to be seen let alone be intimate.

Met someone in a foreign country for a casual date and we had fun in the night. The guy has been messaging me everyday on IG and I have been messaging back. Nothing wrong with it in my mind but it’s t… more

Who was my fish friend in Birmingham? Deloitte maybe? Would love to grab coffee one morning.

Anyone else in here not like sex? Or is this not normal?

I’ve hooked up with a guy twice this week. We have some stuff in common - like similar home style, clothing, sports, vers, etc. We haven’t been super texty - but we have both initiated texts. I was thinki… more

I am a gay man based in the UK, I am really struggling financially with living pay to pay and cant access credit. My biggest challenge is i dont want pity or support from friends or partner but incom… more

What do “needy bottoms” mean ? Can anyone explain for me please?

Looking to go on my first cruise in the next couple of months, likely to the Bahamas. Atlantis is not my scene but would prefer a gay friendly environment.

Those who have cruised, what lines would you … more

Where the gurgaon gays at? 🥺☺️

On Prep, having foreplay (like kissing) with HIV undetectable partner, what’s the transmission rate?

Libertarians/conservative gay men: how to deal with our restrict dating pool? In which country/city its easier to find our own people?

Thoughts on a 24 / 36 year old (gay) relationship? We've been dating for almost a year, officially a couple for 6 months - thinking of moving in together

I dated this guy who ended up asking to just be friends. We continued to spend a ton of time together - we get along exceptionally well. Then he kissed me, I told him I liked him, he freaked, I vocali… more

Does anyone take pure for men? It’s not working for me … 🙄

How do you all handle hanging with a guy on a date and your apps alert like the grindr thing goes off? It’s always so awkward. Do you just act like it isn’t happening or acknowledge it? Either your ap… more

Tried to talk to a guy I thought was cute last night…literally just said “how’s your night?” And he walked away without acknowledging me. I think the younger me would’ve taken it personally but I’m ac… more

Started listening to the Britney audiobook on Spotify. Super depressing :/

How to deal with unrequited love without cutting off someone I feel important to my life?I feel super anxious and crazy to think of him 24/7 and can’t stop thinking of him. I even don’t want to go on … more

Hey friends- anyone can recommend a divorce lawyer in Los Angeles? Friend dealing though a very difficult situation.

Hi please help! I just started dating someone and he is a couple years older. We have very similar backgrounds and connected very quickly. Our first date was a 4 hour dinner and then a couple days lat… more

Any other musicals like dear Evan Hansen you guys like?

I “love” how this is the only bowl I’m in that always has questions that should be on Reddit instead. 🙄

Just a shout out to all the loved ones of trans folks. You matter and you are loved. It can work, don’t give up!

Any tips on getting back into the dating pool after a breakup?

To the people who are attracted to men in this bowl do you prefer cut or uncut?

How do you know if you are a lesbian?

Any gay male with experience with going on gay cruises? I am going on my first time in January and I would like some advice on how to prepare and what to expect. ☺️🙃

I find fighting with martial arts guys hot, seriously, rolling with BJJ guys get me hard. Is it bad??