Went on my first good date in years. Perhaps I won't be alone after all.

How long did you date (or, how long would you want to date) before marrying? What would you want to see or feel before marrying someone?

How do you avoid lesbian bed death? Been dating my partner for almost a year now, and we have sex 3x a month, if that. My sex drive is still very high, and I’d prefer to have sex a few times a week. I… more

Anyone has experience visiting Saudi Arabia? Wondering what to expect. I don’t plan on having any apps and really be down low while I am there but appreciate hearing from others about their experience… more

Question for the Bisexual crowd: do you ever find yourself erasing your own identity? I’m terrible at assuming peoples sexualities(it’s not intentional). I’ll assume someone’s gay or lesbian long befo… more

Hi friends! Do any of you utilize a room separator for your home office? My entire front room of my house is my office, but I’d like a room separator to help me with visual distractions. Mind sharing … more

Had a situationship break down about 4 months ago and still not over it. Is this normal?

Does anyone have an un/official queer career/professional mentor? I’m starting to think it would be a seriously beneficial relationship to seek out

For all the NYC fishes: I am looking for a short term rental in Manhattan (6-9 mo). Willing to sublease. No roommates and only need a studio. If you know of any good options, please direct message … more

I (gay male) get grabbed/groped fairly often when I go out in queer spaces & I will immediately tell someone to f*ck off. Most friends I talk to seem to accept it as just part of the culture even … more

Have any firms made any public remarks about MPX and how they’re adapting in-person events?

I am coming to terms that I am bi. I have tried to ignore this with every biphobic trope in the book, and finally taking my identity and feelings seriously. I’m 10 years into a straight presenting mar… more

What kind of guys are considered hot and popular in gay society?

Favorite summer gay day trips from NYC? Fire Island, Riis, …?

Recently I talked to a company about a position. During talking to them, I asked to see their benefits. In the insurance policy under exclusions I see. Sex Change Surgery- Expenses related in any way … more

Asian M early thirties here. Came out to my dad a few years ago and today at lunch he spent half of it suggesting that I should go out on dates more often and to ask my friends to set up me with sing… more

Is anyone connected with The Trevor Project? I have a few applications in with them and am looking to get in touch with someone. Thanks!

My ex suddenly started texting me, mentioning the old memories we had together and want to at least be friends. What could have happened?

Best places in Europe for LGBT pals?

Best lgbt dating app?

Hello Again NYC LGBTQIA+ Friends...

I have 2 VIP Tickets for Saturday @ 7:30pm at UBS Stadium for the Barry Manilow concert. These are VIP spotlight club tickets with unlimited food, snac… more

Guess the government finally decided to declare monkeypox a public health crisis. It must be affecting the general public (or white suburban women) more now.

Going to Vegas and thinking about getting a massage at the hotel spa. 1) any opinions on who has the best one on the strip and 2) is it safe given the mpx situation?

In movies and tv, do you think that LGBT+ characters should be played by LGBT+ actors?

Referrals for Customer Service/Success please. I am willing to process my own work permit to relocate in DE. Just need to have a JO.

Please, for love!
Edit: yes,posting this here to se… more

Thoughts on dating someone in better shape? We are probably equal in face attractiveness but he has an 8 pack and I have a single. I feel like I have a lot to offer but the vanity in this community ma… more

For those in Chicago, I just made a Monkeypox vaccine with UI Health for next week! Location is pretty south (near West Side) but they had PLENTY of appointments avaible next week. Link below
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Insta gays are so very boring to me. No hate, no shade just Snoozetown, USA population me

For my bisexual folks out there, do you ever give the opposite sex a try.? Then you’re like uhhh nah. I was on date number two he’s a great guy. I just couldn’t get into it sexually. Then I started l… more

Started watching “uncoupled” on Netflix. Wow this same plot happened to me in real life one year ago this September 😪. Really hits home — on episode 2 and already out of kleenex. Ended up getting a w… more

I find that guys in the Bay Area are not as attractive as guys in say Chicago, Munich or Berlin :(

Any sober fish? How’d you get there? Struggling a bit here

MONKEYPOX MASTER THREAD:

Since Monkeypox is a topic of interest for many in this group, I am linking all posts in this bowl related to Monkeypox on this pinned thread. Feel free to start di… more

Does monkeypox leave permanent scars? Does the vax prevent the blisters?

1- If you got the 🐒🦠 vaccine I am happy for you, but remember that most people don’t have access to it right now, so when you post your selfies on Instagram it makes people feel bad; 2- people with … more