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What are/were your non-negotiables in a relationship?

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Anyone else sick and tired of straight people invading our spaces?

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Any bar/food/event recommendations for Charlotte? Going to pride there next week. First time in Charlotte.

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Do we still have a groupchat floating around? 😈

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Anyone have any good recommendations for a Marriott/Westin resort? I have a lot of points and 10 days and have no idea where to go. Down to go literally anywhere but want a resort.

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Hello, I am a support teacher in an elementary school. I have a classroom library with an LGBTQ+ section. I would love to do a unit on LGBTQ+ history and/or people. Has anyone here done that in an ele… more

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Why is monkeypox vaccination only available for gay people? Are they suggesting that gay people tend to have more casual hook up?

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I hate the jobs I haven done, and my partner told me to just retire...based on how much he knows me, I'll never be happy about working in any corporate jobs. I'm 30 now. Is it too early to ret… more

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I feel super lonely. The depression is getting me worse.

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Can someone please explain to me what Market Days are?

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What is anyone’s experience dating someone younger? I am finding that it’s slim pickings for guys in late 30’s/early 40’s— and I am now looking for long term and wanting to settle down and share the r… more

I find that not many gay guys have kids, is it because of the high surrogate cost? Or simply the lack of parenting desire?

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How long into dating someone do you have sex for the first time? I know there isn’t a right or wrong answer but curious what people think.

Newly single here and taking things slow. Previous… more

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Went on my first good date in years. Perhaps I won't be alone after all.

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How long did you date (or, how long would you want to date) before marrying? What would you want to see or feel before marrying someone?

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How do you avoid lesbian bed death? Been dating my partner for almost a year now, and we have sex 3x a month, if that. My sex drive is still very high, and I’d prefer to have sex a few times a week. I… more

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Anyone has experience visiting Saudi Arabia? Wondering what to expect. I don’t plan on having any apps and really be down low while I am there but appreciate hearing from others about their experience… more

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Question for the Bisexual crowd: do you ever find yourself erasing your own identity? I’m terrible at assuming peoples sexualities(it’s not intentional). I’ll assume someone’s gay or lesbian long befo… more

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Hi friends! Do any of you utilize a room separator for your home office? My entire front room of my house is my office, but I’d like a room separator to help me with visual distractions. Mind sharing … more

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Had a situationship break down about 4 months ago and still not over it. Is this normal?

Does anyone have an un/official queer career/professional mentor? I’m starting to think it would be a seriously beneficial relationship to seek out

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For all the NYC fishes: I am looking for a short term rental in Manhattan (6-9 mo). Willing to sublease. No roommates and only need a studio. If you know of any good options, please direct message … more

I (gay male) get grabbed/groped fairly often when I go out in queer spaces & I will immediately tell someone to f*ck off. Most friends I talk to seem to accept it as just part of the culture even … more

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Have any firms made any public remarks about MPX and how they’re adapting in-person events?

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I am coming to terms that I am bi. I have tried to ignore this with every biphobic trope in the book, and finally taking my identity and feelings seriously. I’m 10 years into a straight presenting mar… more

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What kind of guys are considered hot and popular in gay society?

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Favorite summer gay day trips from NYC? Fire Island, Riis, …?

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Recently I talked to a company about a position. During talking to them, I asked to see their benefits. In the insurance policy under exclusions I see. Sex Change Surgery- Expenses related in any way … more

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Asian M early thirties here. Came out to my dad a few years ago and today at lunch he spent half of it suggesting that I should go out on dates more often and to ask my friends to set up me with sing… more

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Hi folks, I have two friends with monkey pox heading to market days this weekend. I tried to talk them out of it but they said it’s minor shouldn’t stop them from having fun. Please make sure you look… more

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Is anyone connected with The Trevor Project? I have a few applications in with them and am looking to get in touch with someone. Thanks!

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My ex suddenly started texting me, mentioning the old memories we had together and want to at least be friends. What could have happened?

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Best places in Europe for LGBT pals?

Best lgbt dating app?

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Hello Again NYC LGBTQIA+ Friends...

I have 2 VIP Tickets for Saturday @ 7:30pm at UBS Stadium for the Barry Manilow concert. These are VIP spotlight club tickets with unlimited food, snac… more

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