LGBTQIA+ 🐠

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Uncomfortable truth: the drug scene in our community is getting worse, it seems.

Are there any apps that have a higher likelihood of finding situationships?

Has anyone used OutClose to meet people? I think it used to be called Gayborhood and it looks like they had a relaunch

Idk if I’m depressed or what but I have just not purpose in life, I feel like I’m just existing going day to day. I don’t know what to do but I don’t even know why I’m here

no judgement please - what's the line between high sex drive v. sex addiction? 31 here, and looking back the past few years, I have been trying to (and indeed happened) hook up with at least coupl… more

I just wanna stop by and say all of you deserve the sunshine. 🌞

Can’t wait for the finale this Thursday ish.

How am I supposed to do work today when all I want to do is talk about everything in heated rivalry episode 5?? Working today feels homophobic

Episode 5 ending of Heated Rivalry really destroyed me. Bawling. Realized I tear up easily at touching acts of service in movies/shows too. Am I somewhat broken because I wish I had someone like that?

Guys im really confused lately, im 38yo, and actively trying to date and often have very attractive guys messaging me, hitting me up, and i often make initiative and say let's meet for a drink etc… more

Hi everyone! My partner and I are beginning our fertility journey and would really appreciate recommendations for fertility clinics in Florida, especially ones experienced with IVF and surrogacy.

If you’ve worked … more

Thinking of reaching out, in a romantic sense, to an acquaintance from a long time ago, but it seems the only contact is their publicly available work email. Is it too weird to use that? How do I make… more

I’m getting married on Monday! I would love to hear some marriage advice from this group! ☺️👨🏽‍🤝‍👨🏾

So, with Heated Rivalry getting an on-screen version, which other M/M romance-drama series do you think would be best to adapt next?

I find "Heated Rivalry" sad, anyone else?

Does nobody over 40 want to engage in dating anymore? I’m 40, decently good looking guy I think and take care of myself but feels like everyone my age is just to over it. I’m usually the one making mo… more

Two men in mid 30’s, been dating for 3 years, official for 2,5. Monogamous. Talked about moving in together, and feel safe with each other , but not said ”I love you”. Is this strange?

Where’s everyone traveling to over the coming holidays?

Recommendations for lgbt family travel in Havana Cuba? With toddler

I'm looking for project management jobs in companies that support LGBT+. Does anybody have some pointers? Companies that also support sustainability are a plus. - - Cheers.

🌈🐠 QUESTION FOR THE LGBTQ FISHBOWL: 🐠🌈
Is anyone else job-hunting in this economy like a gay little goldfish—swimming in circles, sending résumés into the void, and hoping someone finally says, “Wo… more

This bowl used to be a lot more active. What happened?

My new pcp has asked me to get a self hiv test to my apretude prep appointment. They don’t have instant hiv test kit. Does anyone know where can I find it?

Does anyone use Surest (UHC) as their insurance provider? Any issues trying to get Descovy covered?

Anyone know where the gays in London work out? I love crossfit, calisthenics, and yoga and I’m hoping to find another box or gym where I can work out and socialize with gays. I’moving from San Francis… more

If the Supreme Court ends up overturning gay marriage, it would be unbelievable, but I guess this is the what people voted for. It’s really disheartening to see the country moving backwards after so m… more

I feel weird using the term "boyfriend" for two men in our late 30s. Is there a better term? We've only been dating 5-6 months but I'm approaching holidays and introducing to friends… more

Are any gay men chasing real love anymore?

Or have we replaced it with anonymous sex, climbing the corporate ladder, and trying to live the “fabulous life?”

I just want real love - it’s all I’ve ever wa… more

I’m falling for a guy! He is essentially a blue collar, but makes decent living. Anyone has similar experience? What challenges/ questions I should explore before I go down this path? Is this event… more

How to get the menABCWY vaccine for Meningitis? I went to a CVS but they only had the “ACWY” vaccine.

I ventured in the dark room in Europe and had unprotected sex. I am on prep and took doxy pep. Anything else I need to do to be safe?

Serious question: why are they marketing ED pills to 20/30 somethings? Are there that many younger guys having issues down there? See these ads all over my Grindr/Sniffies profile and it’s a little concerning.more

Could folks share about gay life in Austin?

What are the key elements of a good hinge profile? Literally asking for a friend.

So... You're dating, you've labeled it, the intent is for it to go somewhere long term, how long until you reveal your income? I'm intensely private, but in prior relationships I was guard… more

Has anyone met someone in the Bowl? Or shared photos, Instagrams, etc.

if so, what was your experience?

Are there security companies that hire no experience but with a guard card?

Got a big promo so got invited to an office party with a +1. Would you go there with your long term partner (30 year age gap)? Or does it risk judgment and reputation at work?

This is so embarrassing but I was banned from Hinge (and by extension all match group platforms). I really don’t know why. I hardly had any matches, never argued, never sexted… and now I don’t know ho… more