How do you deal with a senior coworker who is hard to work with (messages and even calls at all hours of the day, is incredibly rude and abrasive to the team, pits team members against each other, etc.)?

I’m recording everything and have notified HR and my manager, as well as this coworker’s manager. But it’s been going on for months and no changes seem to be made. And truthfully, it’s really starting to wear on me

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Keep firm boundaries with that coworker. I have had coworkers like that in the past and you have to be firm with them and make sure to enforce your boundaries. I definitely wouldn't respond after hours.

I would ask your manager directly what the timeline is for resolution and what success looks like. If there’s no clear answer, that’s an answer.

I’m sorry you’re going through that. I wish HR was more supportive and hope they are for you. Sounds like you’re going down the right path

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