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yall, need some guidance/insights lowkey feel like i’m delusional but anyway

currently getting to know this guy— we connected a while back, stayed in touch but didn’t go on our first date until recently (he flew t… more

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Any NY W+ fish 🐟want to meet at cubby or hens tonight?

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I feel like a middle school girl… my crush posted me on her story wishing me a happy birthday with this song 🥹 y’all think this is a friendly gesture or something more?

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I’m (25m) new to dating and learning that I really want to date someone who is a more masculine, total top type of guy as I’m a total bottom. What is the best way of finding someone like this? I don’t… more

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This is kind of a shot in the dark but I’m a remote consultant and have been doing a lot of travel this past year. Looking to see if there’s any people with similar flexible backgrounds with whom I c… more

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Why is dating so humiliating / dehumanizing ?

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Grindr: I don't understand why some people go on dates when they are only looking to hook up (the one inviting and the one being invited). To me, Grindr is just a hookup and sex app, not for those… more

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I saw a post on Threads that resonated with me the other day. When asked what advice would someone give to his younger self, he responded with: settle down before your 30s, before you run out of energ… more

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📍bay area, dating life hasn’t been good here but I’m having good career and making good $$$ here. My experience has been that I find matches with guys in Europe & South America. I’m not getting a… more

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Hello,

*hands over gay card*

I’m 35 and i just publicly learned that the Oscars and the Academy Awards are the same thing.

It’s been a pleasure being part of the gay community.

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Manager, 27 and down under in Australia. Anyone have any reflections on dating/meeting professional and ambitious gay/bi men? I really struggle as so many of the LGBTQI+ people (including dear friends… more

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I been with my partner over 6 years hes always in the mood and I'm the complete opposite and hes older than me over 20 years any ideas to spice it up

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Any lgbtq or general recos for Waikiki/Oahu and Maui? Solo traveler, 30s

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Anyone Les here as well? :)

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Please recommend some alphabet rainbow gang shows. Please do not say Queer as Folk or The L Word 😩😭

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Any other gay men very close to giving up on love?

I’m 37 and I just don’t think it will find me at this point - not for lack of trying.

I think there is a very real loneliness epidemic in our community… more

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I'm graysexual and I joined one of the "queer-focused" dating apps. What a disaster. I guess I should just give up on dating overall :( Anyone going through a similar situation?

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People always complain about how hard it is to have a relationship in our community, but for me, what is much worse is the lack of friends. I don't care about not finding a boyfriend, but I do car… more

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Moving to SF from NYC for a month. Looking to make some gay friends :3

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Has anyone ever used a matchmaking service? Especially interested to hear from the ladies, but I'll take your experiences, too, gentlemen! And, if you're willing to share, would be curious to … more

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Anybody in Houston attending the Rodeo?

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Anyone attending / looking to network at the NEXUS PE conference this week?

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Love our 🐠 US colleagues - just wondering if there are more of us in the UK? (30M here)

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I'm new here my wife passed last November and I am trying to find work as well as friends. I am looking for something inventory and I promote authors and I am looking for something in the medical… more

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Hope to connect with guys based in Las Vegas! DM

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After a date, neither me nor my date text each other. I find him boring & for sure not a good match but it’s not a bad experience which would trigger me to unmatch him. But he unmatched me after a… more

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35 year old lesbian here. Is it just me or is it more difficult to make a connection as you get deeper into your 30’s? I’m uninterested as soon as I see me and a date are in totally different places i… more

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Is it just me or Sunday is the desperate day? Ppl don't respond to me at all on Friday/Saturday, but when Sunday comes they are all looking for hookups/dates.

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What’s the minimum healthy frequency of sex in a M-M relationship?

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Why do straight people joke and say that they are going to start dating people of the same sex just because it's not working out with the opposite? A friend mentions this a few times. Are they just joki… more

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Recruited by a friend to work on a special project. Pay/benefits/hours/95% WFH all great. To learn the company vibe I started in an entry level position. Onboarding visits to several offices for mee… more

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How has been your experience working in consulting as openly gay person.

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Any positive experiences with companies during pride? How do you go about getting your company to agree to March in the parade ect

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Anyone living in NY/NJ interested in attending the Rangers v Devils game tomorrow (2/22) at the Prudential Center in Newark (5 minute walk from Newark PATH station)?

I have a spare ticket (free for you… more

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A guy unmatched me because I couldn’t respond in 24 hours … is this the new SLA for dating? I usually take days to respond before I know you.

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Anyone here a practicing Christian and able to reconcile their faith with their sexuality? I grew up catholic but don’t believe in the anti -LGBT sentiment and wasn’t ever super devout.

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Been seeing this guy for one month, we have a strong emotional connection and he treats me incredibly well. We’re physically attracted to each other but the sexual chemistry isn’t there at all for me and hasn’t improved over… more

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@gays - do you feel more or less able to cry around your partner vs straight men?

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Thoughts on nipple piercings on men - yay or nay? Why?

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Anyone else loving their single Valentine’s Day? No, ya me neither. lol. 35 M and still single.

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