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He shouldn’t bothered if ur sister only talks to u and not him directly. What’s matter to him most is u only.
But whenever u guys meet or having a conversation on phone then it will be without any grudges or taunts it shd be smooth from both sides as u already get married now
Also this is wrong that why shd we take initiative to talk …. It will create gap only
Don’t try to create balance as of now otherwise ull get mad
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My sister and brother-in-law, who live in the US, are coming to India. Our family wants to have a discussion to sort things out by calling us together, but we’re worried that old issues might come up again.
Ego is not good. Talk to your sister and husband and try to clear things. If she is not calling, your husband can take first step and talk to them.
Honestly speaking in the end this is what matters you would matter to your parents
he would matter to his
nd you both will matter to each other
Speaking by experience how much you burn yourself to bring the two families together it wouldn’t happen because to our family they look stupid and to their family ours looks stupid
Live your life don’t stress to fix all the broken pieces in the world you got married to enjoy your married life and not do what you are doing right now
Let it go with the flow if it doesn’t it’s okay you tried now leave them all by themsleves and live your life
I am doing the same
why to talk if anybody does not wants to , so just chill. it is not your responsibility for everyone to like each other . you can only take ur own responsibility
Kind of the same happened in my marriage, 12 years ago. Post my marriage day, my parents never spoke or visited my in laws, it was a big deal then ,but then everything settled. Still not speaking, but no one complaints
So i will suggest, try to adjust within your in laws place, with your head high. Dont get into conversations that are not pleasing. And your sister is right. Marriage ceremony is over, if vibe does not match, no need to talk and increase everyone's bp. You just concentrate on yourself, your wellbeing, settling at in laws place and creating your stand there. Everything else will fall into place eventually
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