Having such a hard time setting boundaries with my family and wife. I have tried everything! My dad lives with me, sister and brother live close by. So much family drama just can’t get away causing fights augments ugh 😩

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Sorry to hear that, brother. But just know, you'll be dealing with this your entire life.

If you have kids, just focus on raising them as best as you can. Other than that, take one week at a time, one day at a time and one breath at a time - depending on how much drama you're dealing with.

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Have a sit down and say look I feel like I’m not being heard. Either we fix this or it will cause issues further down the road and I don’t want to have a horrible relationship I want a good prosperous one if you frame it in a way that they understand more specifically your wife then your family members then you can handle this way better

It will take work don’t take me wrong anything worth it takes work

The best analogy I got was the husband is like a quarterback on the team. It’s a tough gig but you have what it takes to navigate it.

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