How do you tune out a coworker who thrives on drama? Our office is an open layout, and I'm stuck sitting right in the middle of it. The room is already noisy, but this person takes it to another level with their constant heavy sighing, loud complaining, and making a huge deal out of absolutely nothing. Besides wearing headphones, how can I block out that negative energy when I'm trapped in the same room?

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Headphones are a song first step. And not ear buds, something visible.

The big thing is do not feed them.

I know this type and they live for the fraction.

Read up on "gray rock". It will apply here too.

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I'm not sure if I can help with this but I will give it a try. I've been been told I need to work on having a filter because alot of people get offended by the truth? If they are being difficult but they are your friend in some way try being honest in a settle way after work. If you do it b4 work or at lunch and they don't like what you told them the tension will just build up the rest of the day. After work gives them time to process it and calm down. If they are not your friend voice your concerns to your supervisor or HR about your concerns. HR is pretty much useless for the money they make some make them work for it tell them it's a distraction. The headphones are a good idea that way the cover your whole ear to drown them out. Or try to think of happy stuff to tune them out go to your happy place. If all else fails when they start ranting put your fingers in your ears start changing aloud LA LA LA LA LA LA LA I'm not listening to you please stop talking I'm trying to work. LoL just a thought. It may shock them enough they shut up? I have a guy at work who can't sing to save his life always butchering the songs on the radio. Even tho I've told him after singing " I now know why you work as a lot tech"

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Talk to and confront them if it doesn’t stop speak with the upper management until you are heard

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Your dealing with a narcissist. They thrive on the drama and the attention they draw from others. The attention is fuel to them, and in your confined workspace, your better off giving them a soapbox and a megaphone. Remedy...start with prayer. Your next move is telling them about other job offers. Allow the narcissist to think they can do better somewhere else. Ex: "You're pretty good at that. Have you ever thought about auditioning?" Redirect thair attention. You will have to start elevating yourself, talk about the things you did at work and from your time off. Make yourself and your coworker' small achievements seem grand. Start dressing more professionally and go at work with a smile on your face and love in your heart. Your narcissist will not be able to touch that.

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Find another job if it's bad enough

You’re different to me, I’d def find some entertainment in that personally - as long as I wasn’t getting involved 😂

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