I have a new male coworker, and I want to build rapport, but obviously i don’t want to come on too strong or God forbid flirty. I asked how his long weekend was and it kind of fell flat. What are some good ways to break the ice when you’re working remotely? Especially with the opposite sex? Thx!

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I wouldn't worry too much about coming across inappropriately. That's a very standard small talk question. His lack of response to it is honestly kind of odd - it's not like you were asking about his dating life or something private. Just keep doing what you're doing and the rapport will come.

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Thanks so much. Very comforting to hear! 💗

You could just be honest and let them know you want to get to know them without making it weird! Sometimes honestly just works best.

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This is an interesting point. Thanks! I think I’m too shy to try it, but it’s cool to learn other ppl’s ways of thinking and being.

Get him talking about sports. Works like a charm.

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You’re a genius! Thanks!

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