In a recent review, I was told I should smile more in meetings... like that somehow makes me a better team player. Meanwhile, the guy next to me literally shows up in gym clothes, says nothing, and barely engages, but no one bats an eye. I’ve hit my numbers, led key initiatives, and stayed professional, but apparently what I really need is… better vibes? Why is likability still so gendered in 2025?

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Because as women it is somehow more important we are likable than capable. It’s just gross

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Idk but it’s real

Men are never told to smile, or not to look so serious. My boss once told me I had resting b face.

I think that’s a gesture feedback

Is it really that difficult to smile…? Also what gender are you?

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