My colleague has a great relationship with the other team in my branch. I've always considered myself to be kind and thoughtful but as I don't take part in the tea making rota (I drink water) They do not speak to me. its becoming very lonely Am I being too sensitive? What would you do? I responded to an email & made a donation to one of their children recently for charity but he has still not spoken to me or thanked me.

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Even with the best intentions, some people will always be cold to you. It’s not a good feeling when you are trying to be friendly and it’s being met with nothing. Continue being nice/professional, and you’ll find your group, whether at work or outside of it.

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This is a bummer, and I'm sorry you're going through it. Not receiving respect or kindness from colleagues is something I've gone through too. I think all you can really do is be as kind as you can, and start to lower your expectations for how they will treat you. Maybe there are people on other teams you can get to know?

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There have been a number of other things that upset me. Every day I say good morning when I get in and get maybe one or 2 murmurs. I had a BBQ 2 years ago and invited them all insisting on the invite they need not bring anything and not only did they not reply but they didn't show up either.

Sorry this is happening!

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