This isn’t an accounting issue but I wanted the opinion of my people. Would you buy a real diamond or a lab one for your significant other? How much should I really be spending on a ring ? I ask because I am conflicted: This is the second time around for me and gosh she has contributed to my life significantly that I want to give back and let her know am here.

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Honestly, depends on the lady and what you’ve learned from being with her. Has she expressed her preference before indirectly? I personally don’t care for an expensive ring ($1k or less) but some ladies do. Also, if you feel you have the means and that’s how you want to show your appreciation, then it’s up to you. Haha I know my response doesn’t help but the issue is so subjective 😆

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Hahaha I appreciate you taking the time to write. She is very low key. She has been doing so much for her family and people around her that I feel like I want to get her something nice. She is a CPA and makes decent money. I don’t necessarily want to break the bank but she helped me become debt free. I am about to pay off my mortgage. I just want to do something really nice or give her something really nice. I didn’t think she liked fancy rings but we recently attended an engagement party and seeing her face looking at the ring it felt like she wouldn’t mind a good one. Not sure… 🤔

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I would say it depends on your lady. See if she has a preference between mined and lab grown diamonds. If lab grown then you are able get more bang for your buck. I'd also see what type of diamond shape she likes. A lot of people get caught up in carat sizes but until they see it on their finger you both won't know what looks the best. Unless you want it to be completely a surprise maybe you both can take a trip to the jewelry store and see what she says she likes and doesn't like and her ring size. Then months later you can determine what ring to buy based on the information gathers over the last few months.

Thank you so much. I asked her best friend who is like a sister for her and she give so many details. Apparently she wants a less than $3k ring and an upgrade at 10 year anniversary. She wants a princess cut . I cannot believe I had to come here to think about asking her friend lol.

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