Unfortunately I have a crush on my opposing counsel and unless I’m completely delusional I think he’s fond of me as well. Is it completely out of the question even after the case resolves? Or can I/should I shoot my shot? And how could I go about doing that without being totally weird 😂

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Definitely not out of the question, especially once the case is over. Invite him out for coffee/drinks to celebrate the case being over and see if he makes a move from there.

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That’s a great idea, thanks!

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Ive had crushes on judges, professors and bosses but wouldn’t dream of making a move it’s just a bad idea. The attraction is usually appreciation for how they present themselves in boss mode, their articulation and charisma, how nicely they are dressed and groomed but that’s not the basis of a relationship because they aren’t that person in real life and sadly we lawyers get to this point from a need to fill some deep insecurity, need to be liked and to win. That’s not what you want out of a partner maybe something to play with but it’s at the cost of your reputation.

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Haha yes that’s a good point maybe it is just a convenience crush. The case was stayed for awhile but I remember thinking he was attractive at the beginning. I just didn’t know anything about his personality until we interacted in person. If it does turn out to be a convenience crush I’m sure it’ll fade before the end of the case so we will see what happens!

How we will get an update on this??

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Following because I want this turned into a romcom. Gimme a reason to live.

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You guys are meeting other lawyers who are single?

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Right!

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