Started hormones yesterday. I did not realize how restrictive this was going to be with random bloodwork / ultrasounds. Thought I could halt travel for 2 wks and do 7am appts. So hard with our job!

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Yes it’s a lot and the hormones will really start to have some side effects too. Hang in there!! It’s only a couple weeks. Try to call and get everything scheduled now if you can. In the last few days they might want more. You can also see docs in other towns and have them send your doc the results - I’ve done it! You’ve got this

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I agree- it’s so hard with travel. as a heads up, I had to do an out of town appointment and had to pay out of pocket

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Rooting for you! Check back in if you need words of encouragement or support- the hormone side effects are real as SD1 noted above.

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Yes the hormones can be rough as well as the appointments! Did they give you a calendar? Not sure what type of fertility cycle you’re doing but it may not be feasible to travel

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Just went through this - happy to talk it through! I’d recommend working remote those two weeks; stay close to your doctors office and block times on your calendar for the appointments and administering the hormones. Eat healthy and take care of yourself - prioritize these few weeks so you don’t have to do another cycle. Good luck!!

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Thank you! Remote this week and next. Hoping to do retrieval next week before I have to travel again. Day 6 and so ready to be done soon! I’m getting increasingly nauseous, so I’m glad I have the option to work from home this week. Partner is international for the next few weeks, so it’s tough doing it alone. I didn’t realize how emotionally taxing it would be.

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Wow you are so brave! Best of luck tomorrow - really hoping you have a great result! Be sure to rest, have plenty of fluids and take whatever pain meds your doc recommends - almost there!

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It is tough doing it alone.

It is! Did you do it solo or with a partner? I think I’ve cried every single day so far. I can’t if it’s the hormones, the process, or all of the extremely sad videos I’ve felt compelled to watch. I’m physically and emotionally exhausted!

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