Anyone else feel like there’s no benefit of moving in with a partner? My girlfriend stays over enough anyway, no need to limit myself and destroy and time alone lol

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Tell her that you don’t want the relationship to
progress so she can find a capable partner.

Are your parents divorced? Did you grow up without a family?

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Just end your relationship if you don’t want to live with her. It’s literally the next step before engagement.

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it would make breaking up more complicated, one way is to move in together but still maintain your own place

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If peace of mind outweighs any financial incentive, I would stay solo partners. 😐

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There’s so much benefit. If you are planning on spending your life together, and if you two truly feel a strong attachment toward one another, why wouldn’t you start now?

At the very least you’ve been given the opportunity to make it happen, and you should cherish it or take a hard look at the relationship and decide if it’s really the one for you

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I made this mistake before. I was asked by an ex to move in together. I felt ambivalent and repeatedly denied and strung her along. I should have ended it right then and there.

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Cheaper rent

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Tell me you don’t live in VHCOL without telling me directly 🤣

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Then I don’t understand the question. By all accounts everyone in Manhattan and popular areas in Brooklyn are paying exorbitant amounts to live there. If you cut that in half you’re suddenly able to save quite substantial money additionally every year

Do you plan on marrying them? If so, you will end up living together. Better to find out if your relationship can survive cohabitation before becoming legally married.

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You might have commitment issues or very avoidant

anyone who is not that into me must have commitment issues

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