Hello Bosses,

I rage applied to a few roles and ended up landing one. I’m typically in project management but this new opening is over in the Risk management area. Two completely different worlds.

I’m thinking of turning it down because I do like what I’m doing now. But in my brain, my previous (toxic) bosses statement lingers: i tend to stay in my comfort zone.

How do know to trust your gut? I know I could do either job well. My gut is peaceful staying. Uneasy about the change.

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

I think there are a few things here. First, I'd think about what led you to rage apply. Was it just a really rocky moment/project or a recurring feeling you've been having in your current role? If the latter, a change is probably good!

Then I'd think about where you want to go in your career/life. What part of you sparked when you were applying and interviewing for this new role? Is it focusing in on your favorite parts of your current job or excitement on the new things you'd get to learn? Is it potentially an improved environment to spend your 40-ish each week? I think the decision on whether to stay in PM or move into a Risk role is pretty personal as we all have our own strengths and goals, but the "why" questions are the same!

And to the comment from your manager, most people are inclined to stay in their comfort zone. There's value in finding your groove and flourishing there! But change/growth can also be really positive and it feels scary even to those of us who are on the more adventurous side. Fear and excitement have nearly identical physiological responses so try flipping the narrative to one of excitement and see how you feel.

like

I was getting tired of the project manager life when I applied. Not really heard, only taking notes and being the expert on the process.

So I started networking internally and this job popped up.

But the work type is looking for gaps in the completed project work before the go/no go for something going live. This is the time when the project teams are stressed and just want to release and the new role could be that person that blocked it.

So, I know I could do the job. And do it well. The issue I have is if my personality would flourish in that constraint.

And I know I would have a sponsor in my career in this area and I probably wouldn’t be in the role for life.

The downside, I would be leaving my current project team kinda in a lurch after they just started really starting to click.

Project Mgmt. is a thankless job, I would move into Risk Mgmt. in a heartbeat.

like

Risk Management may give you a more lucrative career path. Does it interest you?
Project management skills are applicable to any project.
Think of rage applying as being in fight or flight mode.
We all have to leave our particular comfort zones to learn new things and mature in our working lives.
I was often labeled as doesn’t like change. My problem is being a perfectionist/expert in what I do - so having to learn new things puts a kink in that. Therefore, out of my comfort zone.

Lucrative is what I’m trying for. But the initial move is a small pay cut for the first year but it would get me out of contractor mode and into fTe mode.

The work life balance is going to be a bit off for the initial run. I think that is more of my concern.

I think risk is something that would give me a bigger tool kit in the future.

like

In the same position, I raged applied and got offered the same job at a different company with better pay and away from my toxic work environment. It’s crazy to me that I’m so comfortable with the toxic management that I’m so hesitant to making the change

OP - you’re torn, but from your comments your current role is not fulfilling. Change can be scary, and I’ll tell you one of the most powerful things someone told me early in my career is “you are where you want to be”
Go for it.

like

Related Posts

Hello Fishes,
Can someone please guide me regarding the interview process at
Tavisca? How many rounds are there and how to prepare for it?
Thanks. Tavisca JPMorgan Chase

like

Hi guys ,

I have a job id for atlassian .

Kindly refer me.

Please cooment down so that i can reach you.

I will share my profiles on dm.

Atlassian

Any senior writers looking in NY? Send me your books.

like

I am not sure just how many people are in this bowl but I feel like I just need to say this...I AM SO GRATEFUL AND HAPPY WITH MY DECISION TO PRACTICE IP! I am a newer attorney and I practice solely trademark law. I love it, my boss, my schedule and I am happy! I am seeing so many attorneys posting about burnout, stress, and hating their jobs in the other bowls and I just needed to shout it out to the universe that I think we made the right decision with IP.

like

After I eat sehri, I just want to lay down while my stomach looks like a mountain. Then I become so lazy to get up for fajr. Shaitan is locked up, it feels like I’m the shaitan, don’t wanna get up ...

funnylike

What do you think of the Saint Laurent baby uptown bag in white with gold hardware?

like

Wanted to discuss counter offer with Cognizant. Sent them mail, messages, calls no response. What to do? Just join them with offered package?
CTS is paying most i just wanted to do some negotiation for joining bonus etc.

likeuplifting

Hi all,

I'm looking for a change, having an experience of about 1+ yr. I'm a front-end developer working on React and looking for similar roles/opportunities.

like

Going off another post, what are some examples of issues / solutions ODD Solves? I’ve seen consultant reports when working on a deal but I believe those are put together by a consultancy’s CDD group? What outputs do ODD generate

like

Anyone working for the city? I put in an application months ago and still haven't heard back from them

like

Any ideas for side gigs I can start online? Do drop shipping websites work? YouTube automation channel etc? Any other ideas welcome

like

Any California freelancers/ self employed know what’s up with the CARES Act being implemented? When can we expect to apply?

like

Here we go again.

Post Photo
likefunny

Any freelance photographer gigs in LA?

like

Creating my registry, what are some must haves to put on it! Doing Amazon and Target, thanks for the help in advance.

like

Any recommendations on apartments or condos for a new grad working in consulting?

Thanks!

Trying to stay under $2k/month

like

EY leave department hasn’t been the most helpful with the exact details around maternity leave - so just wondering for any EY mamas - how do we initiate getting the two weeks before due date off? Just a doctors note or ??? Thank you!!

like

Currently 16 weeks with an inconsistent bump. Sometimes is noticeable and other times it’s not, anyone experienced this? Currently it went back to almost non existent and am worried

Hi guys,

I recently moved to Canada from the US and I'm looking for a job. I have 6 years of experience in Cyber Security working at EY US and Accenture India.

Please let me know if you can help me in anyway.

I work with someone who always makes subtle digs at my code. Like they’ll say good job… and then they’ll say there’s space to refactor/improve code quality and we can handle that later. I get that you can always improve code but it’s so irritating. Any advice?

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal