Hey friends. What are the best ways to bounce back after being passed over for a promotion? :(

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move on baby and don’t look back.

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Do the bare minimum

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It’s corporate BS. Just leave to the next gig. Companies have no loyalty so follow the example of Felicia the patron saint of farewells!

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😂😂 I am totally stealing this line. Felicia, the patron saint of farewells.

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Leave to a different place. When leaving specify this was why

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Eliminate the competition...

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Seconded.

I’m about to fight my managers, skip, and directors

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Some stupid comments here. But I get it it's hard to have the same motivation as you did before. All your hard work was overlooked and there no recognition. I call this type of environment political. But I can give you some advise on this. You can tackle this a few ways. 1. Keep doing what you're doing and come back harder and then have a chat with your seniors and show them your value and what it would mean if you were to leave. 2. Move roles and getting a promotion that way.

At the end you need to show them your value and what you have done and bought to the table

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Agreed, however there could potentially be a peculiar reason in the way [maybe it’s political], but it could also potentially be due to budgetary constraints that are in place [most companies would be able to increase salary to some degree], but maybe need to wait until the next budget period to get the title bump, just a thought I had.

Every organization is different, but with the right people at the helm, you should receive a promotion in due time when it is fully deserved. If not, yes, fully agree to have that conversation with managers and potentially leadership. If they’re not receptive to it after you communicate it, then you should jump ship and find the right firm that fits your needs and has the culture you want.

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Leave and find a place where you’re valued.
It’s why folks in finance move around a lot.

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Here’s an unpopular opinion that you probably don’t want to hear right now. You might not have been the best candidate for the position. It happens to all of us, and it’s terrible. You read all of the comments here and they’re all equally awful, and not one has mentioned retrospection. Comparing your qualifications to the person hired and learning from there. You spend time at a company and their main interest is making money (for profit company I’m assuming), so, the question then becomes how well have you done that in your role? The question then becomes, why them why right now. So, swallow your pride, go in tomorrow, or maybe take the weekend to be ticked off, and throw an outlook appointment on your bosses or the hiring managers calendar and ask the hard questions (e.g. what qualities did so and so have that I didn’t / was there a qualification I am missing that I should have / in the future if a similar position opens do you think it would be smart of me to apply / if yes, what can I do in the next 6-9 months to be on the best position possible) that will position you for either the next opening you’d be interested in or provide the clarity you might need to make a move elsewhere. Don’t do it in haste, whatever you do.

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I’m sorry to hear this. Recalling my own experience, it wasn’t easy, it’s tough, made me question my own competence and even whether this was the right profession for me. If this is you as well, I would advice to strive to be kind to yourself, circle yourself with your best friend(s) and core support system, who accept and value you for who you are, as is. If you’re not impacted this way then great, keep your chin up and imo the next better step is to move on and look elsewhere, and prove that you’re capable somewhere else. The problem is people see what they want to see and imo the effort to change that perception (that caused you being looked over) will have to double/triple, it’s not worth it - better focus your energy in another direction/opportunity. Last but not least, remember that your job/role is not your identity.

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If you want to stay at the same company just keep your head up and stay the course. Go above and beyond to be professional about it and maintain the right attitude. If your leadership is worth a $hit, they’ll notice how you respond to the adversity.

If they’re bad leaders (I.e. the kind that wouldn’t notice and reward the behavior described above) it might be time to go if you can find better opportunities elsewhere.

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Ask for feedback as to why you were not chosen. It’s not always an easy choice when there are multiple talented applicants.

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Request feedback on why not and what you can do better. Then implement the feedback

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Similar experience but I asked after each quarter I was passed over for 3 quarters in a row and the answer for why and what I needed to do for promotion changed each quarter. I decided that I had to 'promote' myself out the door with a lateral move to a new firm.

This has been several years now so I've had time to reflect....Do I think staying for another quarter or two after I left would've changed the situation? No, a new manager was in place that was trying to make a name for himself. He had already thrown me under the bus as a senior peer to me before becoming direct mgr.

So questions to think about....is this the first opportunity for promotion or is there a trend of being passed over? Do you have any allies within your direct/indirect promotion path? Are there other opportunities to shine outside of your direct role? Comparison of time/pay to internal promotion vs your chance to get to that same level externally.

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If you genuinely deserved a promotion and they haven’t given you one, it’s likely they never will.Runaway at the very first opportunity you find elsewhere!

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Find another job

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try to look for a job you want though it’s not bedtime and leave. or wait until the market is better and leave

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Start your own business to directly compete with your old company to put them out of business just for spite. Hate and anger are great motivators your first few years to get you through the grind years.

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